Am I taking this Ganji game situation too far?

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by sharpshooter
yea i'm not wasting any more time with her, unless she just turns into a ho or something..

She has refered to herself as a biAtch before while we were flirting, a while back. Even though it was in a joking type of way,I should have known! haha.

It's just so damn challenging to go after someone like that. I'm not gonna call again, but let's see if she continues her *****y ways or just forgets.

She saw you in a position of weakness when you phoned to apologize and decided to take advantage of your feelings. Believe me when I say that she had ONE and I only mean ONE objective in mind when she replied with that text. That objective was to make you feel like sh1t. She is a true, cold-hearted, calculating b1tch. Anyone with an ounce of good left in them would at the very least ACKNOWLEDGED your apology and learned to forgive and forget. She's acting like you killed her dog or something.

Just forget about her completely. Who cares if she turns ho or not. Ironically what made you "screw up" with her also showed you how she really is deep down inside.....that is black as coal. You got really lucky this time that the screw up actually turned in your favour. Could you imagine how much harder this would be if she turned b`tch like that on you in a RELATIONSHIP? You got a get-out-of-jail-free card. Use it wisely and never forget.

 

[sharpshooter]

Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
She saw you in a position of weakness when you phoned to apologize and decided to take advantage of your feelings. Believe me when I say that she had ONE and I only mean ONE objective in mind when she replied with that text. That objective was to make you feel like sh1t. She is a true, cold-hearted, calculating b1tch. Anyone with an ounce of good left in them would at the very least ACKNOWLEDGED your apology and learned to forgive and forget. She's acting like you killed her dog or something.

Just forget about her completely. Who cares if she turns ho or not. Ironically what made you "screw up" with her also showed you how she really is deep down inside.....that is black as coal. You got really lucky this time that the screw up actually turned in your favour. Could you imagine how much harder this would be if she turned b`tch like that on you in a RELATIONSHIP? You got a get-out-of-jail-free card. Use it wisely and never forget.

yeah, i guess revenge is a mofo. I made her feel like sh1t on wednesday (ignored her in the coldest way possible), and she's trying to stick me with this now. ah, life's great.

 

[sharpshooter]

bizump

i like getting a lot of opinions

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Originally posted by sharpshooter
major update

called her and left a voice message telling her how if i came across like an ******* or something then i'm sorry, told her to call back

She text messages me back and says "i don't wanna come across as being rude, but is there a reason for you calling me?"



how do i proceed from that? need some big time help..

WTF are you doing man???

When you called her, you were asking for a slap in the face, and that's what she gave to you!

When you called her back it just make you look even weaker. To me "ganji game" is bull$hit and mean "I'm done with you, forever". If she goes back to you after that good, if not, that's great!!

 

[sharpshooter]

whoa dude relax haha.

That was the only time I could break it and just come forward, because exams are this week. I'm not gonna see her again until Wednesday at school, and i'm obviously not gonna call. This way i'll be able to re-gauge everything. If she's still interested i'll be able to tell right away (if her attitude changed, body language, the mush face is gone), if not then it's done.

 

[sharpshooter]

final bizump, i love reading different opinions.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Originally posted by sharpshooter
Well i'm gonna call her today and explain why i've been "busy". Obviously i'm not gonna mention GG haha. Just gonna remain positive about it and see where it goes.

Would asking her out to study tommorow be too soon and sudden (considering exams start on monday)? I'm thinking I should just hint that we should hang out AFTER the exams, since we're both gonna be busy during the exams.

Doing it to the girl while seeing her in the same classroom regularly is very transparent. You should have just started talking to her like there was nothing wrong.

But as someone said, she obviously doesn't have the capacity to forgive and forget, but at the same token, you kind of blew it. She probably sees you as immature now, and when you apologised you set yourself up for the knives that she had all sharpened up and waiting for you.

 

[Desdinova]

You're pretty much fvcked. It's not the apology that killed you, it's the ganji 5hit that did it. Learn something from this and move on.

She deserved that apology. You treated her like crap. The apology was necessary for damage control since you're in a school setting. It was good for trying to prevent her from talking 5hit about you to others. One apology was enough. If she doesn't accept it and try to at least remain friendly with you, she's a b1tch and shouldn't be worth any more of your time.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by sharpshooter
alright guys i 'm having a mental breakdown here

should I call tonight (and risk her not picking up/her being in charge again) or wait and see if she shows up to class tommorow and if not, then call?

Ahahaha you tried to play hardball and YOU ended up being the one whose IL got jacked up.

 

[sharpshooter]

hmm

 

[sharpshooter]

final bizzump before this post is history

 

[Blue Phoenix]

No more bumps!

You already know the answer: Move on with your life!

Why don't mods close this thread?

 

[sharpshooter]

it's not over until it's over!

let's see her body language etc tommorow.

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

Hold up...How is this girl a b1tch if she got mad cause this dude was playing games...If she doesnt want to talk to this dude anymore, than thats his fault for playing games, that doesnt put her in the wrong...

 

[sharpshooter]

Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Hold up...How is this girl a b1tch if she got mad cause this dude was playing games...If she doesnt want to talk to this dude anymore, than thats his fault for playing games, that doesnt put her in the wrong...

well..her reply was pretty *****y won't you say

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

Originally posted by sharpshooter
well..her reply was pretty *****y won't you say

Are you serious? How do you expect her to act when you basically cut her off for no reason and then call her out of no where? Of course shes gonna treat you like a$$, cause she doesnt want to waste time talking to you cause she figures you feel the same way...Just drop this girl before things get too serious...

 

[sharpshooter]

i guess this is what happens when two hard headed/stuck up individuals clash and both play hard to get.