Am I taking this Ganji game situation too far?

[sharpshooter]

It's to the point where everytime she looks in my direction she has this extremely shy/sad "why?" type of face. Like her best friend just died or something (that type of face). She's also looking at me a lot more now during class, always trying to sneak in a peak through the corner of her eye. It's like she's wondering how come he's totally ignoring me. I really don't want her to think i'm not interested at all, but I can't deny that this ganji game stuff is working. It really is. Showed her a few times how great I am, then she pissed me off a couple of times so it forced me to just ignore her. I was gonna break the ignoring today by hugging her out of nowhere outside of class but she got out of class quick (guess she thinks what could have been is over?). Exams are coming up next week followed by holidays. I'm thinking I should keep this up...but i'll tell you one thing. It takes a lot of balls and courage to totally ignore someone when you start seeing pain/worry on their face.

 

[Desdinova]

Showed her a few times how great I am, then she pissed me off a couple of times so it forced me to just ignore her.

How did she piss you off?

 

[sharpshooter]

Originally posted by Desdinova
How did she piss you off?

Playfully direspected me once by pointing and telling me to "get" to another seat when I was gonna sit next to her (lol, i know it sounds dumb and we were laughing but...i'm not gonna take that crap). Also she didn't return a call (i barely call) which was about a project that was due the next day.


anyways, back to the damn topic

 

[Panda 2000]

I'd say it has gone far enough if she already has sad puppy eyes about it. Ignoring her for any longer could cause her to give up on you and start ignoring you herself and then the tables would be turned, and you don't want that. I think a little games here and there are okay, but should not be taken too far. Just my opinion.

 

[Desdinova]

Those sound like stupid reasons to pull Ganji on her.

Playfully direspected me once by pointing and telling me to "get" to another seat when I was gonna sit next to her

You're punishing her for being playful? That's like punishing a woman for having fun in bed.

Quit the Ganji 5hit and take her out somewhere.

 

[sharpshooter]

Yeah..I really wanted to end it today by hugging her afterclass but she just jetted and I didn't get the chance.

 

[sharpshooter]

alright guys i 'm having a mental breakdown here

should I call tonight (and risk her not picking up/her being in charge again) or wait and see if she shows up to class tommorow and if not, then call?

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

are you totally retarded?
ganji is when she doesnt know whereyou ae or what you are doing, thats why the man its named after doesnt even go in the same city as the women he "ganji"s

 

[hsm978]

Originally posted by huge_guy_pimpin
are you totally retarded?
ganji is when she doesnt know whereyou ae or what you are doing, thats why the man its named after doesnt even go in the same city as the women he "ganji"s

I just read the Ganji thread and it said that it's for girl that you have known for some time. You don't know sh!t.

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by hsm978
I just read the Ganji thread and it said that it's for girl that you have known for some time. You don't know sh!t.

r u totally retarded?
its to raise interest of women whos interest is dropping, who you originally had A HIGH IL from

 

[AFK Protector]

ganji . . . aint cool because too many people misinterpret and use it wrong.

people like you

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by AFK Protector
ganji . . . aint cool because too many people misinterpret and use it wrong.

people like you

thats what i try to say but some afc claimed otherwise !

 

[hsm978]

Originally posted by huge_guy_pimpin
thats what i try to say but some afc claimed otherwise !

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=21610&highlight=ganji+game

here's the link to the original gangi thread. It mentions repeatedly that it's for girl that you have known for some time. ie a couple of weeks.

You implied that it should be use on girls that you just met. If you DJ some girl and pull this the next day, no way is it gonna work.

And who are you calling an AFC. You have only been register for a month and already you have over 200 posts. Dont you have a life?

 

[AFK Protector]

Originally posted by hsm978
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=21610&highlight=ganji+game

here's the link to the original gangi thread. It mentions repeatedly that it's for girl that you have known for some time. ie a couple of weeks.

You implied that it should be use on girls that you just met. If you DJ some girl and pull this the next day, no way is it gonna work.

And who are you calling an AFC. You have only been register for a month and already you have over 200 posts. Dont you have a life?

hsm isn't an AFC if you were refering to him, because he's got it right. If I met someone, and they died the next day, I wouldn't give a damn. But if I'd known them for a while and my interest was high, but slipping a little, I'd feel like a big part of my life had been taken from me.

Still, too many AFCs, especially bitter ones, and even some DJs use this wrongly by trying to "get bcak" and their oneitis or whatever by not being there. Guess what? THEy doN'T GIVE A DAMn.

 

[guittarjedi]

Dude, be careful! This **** is very dangerous when overused. If you care about this girl at all end the ganji games immediately! I went too far on a gorgeous girl that i got along with great. Now she'll hardly talk to me. Now I'm trying to figure out how to fix this.

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by hsm978
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=21610&highlight=ganji+game

here's the link to the original gangi thread. It mentions repeatedly that it's for girl that you have known for some time. ie a couple of weeks.

You implied that it should be use on girls that you just met. If you DJ some girl and pull this the next day, no way is it gonna work.

And who are you calling an AFC. You have only been register for a month and already you have over 200 posts. Dont you have a life?

i implied nothing and i straight up said that u arent supposed to be in her presence ie not in city when u go ganji on her, as is mentioned.

no i got no life i just masturbate all day and start e-fights with people

 

[AFK Protector]

guittar, you don't try to fix anything. Ganji is used to gauge interest. if they coming running back and start initiating stuff, then they want your ****. if not, they have no interest and you next them.

 

[b's nuts]

isn't pulling ganji games supposed to be a last ditch effort?

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by b's nuts
isn't pulling ganji games supposed to be a last ditch effort?

yes, but u cant be in their class or workplace, or whatever and just pretend they are not there, that is just retarded.
the whole point of it is to have no contact, so she doesnt know what you are doing, thats where the IL comes in, if she has a huge one shell be thinking about you and will try to make contact.

 

[sharpshooter]

UPDATE. Called last night, left a short message on her phone..no reply

Saw her this morning in class. Tapped her with my textbook and said her name....she looked at me and nodded 3 times with a straight/sad face.....so i just walked off

She's not even being friendly anymore. WTF is going on