"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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am i supose to feel?

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My x is in the same university that I go to...

I see her a lot, I never talk to her, but she seem to be looking at me, and the way she acts seems: “she’s trying to make me jealous that she's no longer with me, when she's talking on the phone (cell phone) she's always laughing...... she looks at me directly in the eyes then move her eyes away”....is she trying to do something what do you think I should do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have but one advice: IGNORE HER! Worst thing you can do to someone is show them you don't care. If you walk by her say what's up and keep on walking. Shows your cool and you don't give.
 
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Chicks do this all the time. Not only do they want you to see them as happy without you, but they also subconsciously want you not to be happy.

What should you do? you shouldn't have a problem with her doing whatever the heck she's doing, in the first place. As long as you're paying attention to what she's doing/saying, you're playing her game.

Honestly... ignore her, you know better.

-Bill
 
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Originally posted by the pain
My x is in the same university that I go to...

I see her a lot, I never talk to her, but she seem to be looking at me, and the way she acts seems: “she’s trying to make me jealous that she's no longer with me, when she's talking on the phone (cell phone) she's always laughing...... she looks at me directly in the eyes then move her eyes away”....is she trying to do something what do you think I should do?
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ignoring is a powerfull tool ... learn how to use it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You're not giving us enough information to really help you.


Why do you care what she's doing?
 
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I'm having trouble figuring out exactly what you're looking to accomplish here? Do you still have feelings for this girl and want to get back together but dont' know how? Do you want to find a good way of telling here that you just want to be friends to clear the air? From your words I just can't tell what you're looking to acheive.
 
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I don't understand the point of this post. So you and your exGF don't talk ... and...?

Is there a question here?
 
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