"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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am i supose to feel?

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My x is in the same university that I go to...

I see her a lot, I never talk to her, but she seem to be looking at me, and the way she acts seems: “she’s trying to make me jealous that she's no longer with me, when she's talking on the phone (cell phone) she's always laughing...... she looks at me directly in the eyes then move her eyes away”....is she trying to do something what do you think I should do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I have but one advice: IGNORE HER! Worst thing you can do to someone is show them you don't care. If you walk by her say what's up and keep on walking. Shows your cool and you don't give.
 
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Chicks do this all the time. Not only do they want you to see them as happy without you, but they also subconsciously want you not to be happy.

What should you do? you shouldn't have a problem with her doing whatever the heck she's doing, in the first place. As long as you're paying attention to what she's doing/saying, you're playing her game.

Honestly... ignore her, you know better.

-Bill
 
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Originally posted by the pain
My x is in the same university that I go to...

I see her a lot, I never talk to her, but she seem to be looking at me, and the way she acts seems: “she’s trying to make me jealous that she's no longer with me, when she's talking on the phone (cell phone) she's always laughing...... she looks at me directly in the eyes then move her eyes away”....is she trying to do something what do you think I should do?
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ignoring is a powerfull tool ... learn how to use it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You're not giving us enough information to really help you.


Why do you care what she's doing?
 
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I'm having trouble figuring out exactly what you're looking to accomplish here? Do you still have feelings for this girl and want to get back together but dont' know how? Do you want to find a good way of telling here that you just want to be friends to clear the air? From your words I just can't tell what you're looking to acheive.
 
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I don't understand the point of this post. So you and your exGF don't talk ... and...?

Is there a question here?
 
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