"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Am I short?

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I'm a black male, 5'10.5" tall and 185lbs athletic build. My new girl is white, 5'5" gymnast build. The other day I was with her at her parents place and her mom asked me how tall I was and mentioned that she didn't think the girl looked so tall compared to me. Anyway, I was kind of surprised when my girl said "he's short". Her mom didn't think so, but she said " I find him short". I guess it's probably because her last two serious boyfriends were both skinny guys over 6', but man....it really bugs me. Don't know why. Maybe I'm just vain. I know she's into me and don't know why it bugs me or if it even matters. What do you think? Is it an issue?

M.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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5'0 IS short :p

im 6'0 like you and almost everyone think I'm tall
and you know it yourself, we can see most people's top of the head :D
 

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Jesus, get over it. Watcha gonna do, will yourself to grow? :rolleyes: Work on being a better person in other ways - work out more, study more, etc.
 

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LOL....yeah I guess that's true. Can't do anything about that. Just not happy with the idea of my girl thinking I'm short. Didn't think that 5'10.5" was short.
 

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5'10.5"? Why not just say 5'10" or 5'11"? The only times that halfs count are when you're 12 and a half years old, or 4 foot 3" and a half.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by mecca411
LOL....yeah I guess that's true. Can't do anything about that. Just not happy with the idea of my girl thinking I'm short. Didn't think that 5'10.5" was short.

Look man - your bytch is built "like a gynmast", which is probably a nice eupemism for rather stocky and perhaps a bit meaty. Just call her out on it - she's a chunky-ass ho'. If she can step on your fragile ego by calling you short to your face, the bytch can take a knock on her ever-expanding dress size. Then again, calling a chick chunky is a surefire way to get into a huge fight - maybe you shouldn't.
 

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theres a simple equation for this:

if guys height >= (girls height + heels)

then your good to go and dont worry about it...if not, this really bothers girls for some reason....:confused:
 

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Originally posted by mecca411
Is it an issue?

It is not an issue but you do have issues if this really bothers you that much.

I don't understand the problem. This girl is with you so I don't think your height bothers her. She just thinks your a little short compared to other guys.
 

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Originally posted by mecca411
I'm a black male, 5'10.5" tall and 185lbs athletic build. My new girl is white, 5'5" gymnast build. The other day I was with her at her parents place and her mom asked me how tall I was and mentioned that she didn't think the girl looked so tall compared to me. Anyway, I was kind of surprised when my girl said "he's short". Her mom didn't think so, but she said " I find him short". I guess it's probably because her last two serious boyfriends were both skinny guys over 6', but man....it really bugs me. Don't know why. Maybe I'm just vain. I know she's into me and don't know why it bugs me or if it even matters. What do you think? Is it an issue?

M.
Massive Fail. 5'10 is short like Microsoft is poor.
 

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Is this another of those wind up posts? There has been a spate of these, surely someones having a joke.

I'm only 5 10, am I short?

I'm worried, my pen1s is 9" and it hurts my girlfriend.

My girlfriend is a supermodel who loves anal and always gets her twin sister to come round to join in, what should I do?

If this isn't a wind up then there is something wrong with you, your self image.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AFC post. please reevaluate yourself. and for the record, I'm 5'6" and i know i'm short. fvck i deal with it and let me confidence show me as 6'6"
 

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I am 5 foot 6 to
and I have to say...I dont buy this bull****


you think ur short at 5 10.

this post is either a joke
you have been living under a mountain
or you are massive AFC.

like the guy 2 posts up said...I am short but I am as confident as Shaq Diesel in the NBA finals!
 

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LOLZ SHE DATED YAO MING BEFORE YOU PWNED!!! HAHAHA!!

*Cough cough choke*
 

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Dude, lol your height should be a the bottom of the list of concerns. It sounds like a girl whining about being too fat.

Originally posted by Hollowpoint
LOLZ SHE DATED YAO MING BEFORE YOU PWNED!!! HAHAHA!!

*Cough cough choke*
Eh? :confused:
 

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I think the real issue here is with her. It is a really rude b*tchy thing for a girl to say "you are short compaired to my other boyfriends."
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Cheiradawg
I think the real issue here is with her. It is a really rude b*tchy thing for a girl to say "you are short compaired to my other boyfriends."
This is very true. It would of been interesting if he had asked out right if she was comparing him to her ex-boyfriends and if she was, why.
 

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Tell Her you find her to be a little less attractive than some of the other girls uve dated
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
Tell Her you find her to be a little less attractive than some of the other girls uve dated
Highly immature.
 

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Mecca,

Have you noticed her girl friends giving you a funny look lately. She's probably been talking to them about your performance in bed, you know, as girls do.

But don't get paranoid about it or anything.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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