"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Am I self sabotaging?

Konada

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So recently I got a new job and coupled with dance and working out, I have no time for dating over the weekdays. Inevitably some of the times where online girls agree to dates fall within a week between my next available weekend. (I.e scheduling dates 1 week in advance) Am I sabotaging my chances by scheduling that far in advance when I have literally no time during the weekdays to hang out?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If you don't have time you don't have time. If you can't plan closer you can't plan closer. Try it out, don't ask us. If it doesn't work out you have to prioritize, maybe a little less dancing and working out to have time for women.
 
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Grewd said:
If you don't have time you don't have time. If you can't plan closer you can't plan closer. Try it out, don't ask us. If it doesn't work out you have to prioritize, maybe a little less dancing and working out to have time for women.
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I probably can't draw any patterns with my limited dating experience. All I can say is that when a girl wants to flake she will, just looking for general opinions for things that I can control.
 
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You can't draw any patterns on your limited experience, hence my advice to try it out to gain such experience. You can control how you manage your time. If a girl wants to flake she will do it regardless of what you do.
 
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