Dave... The problem is not the women this time (strange, I know), it's you and how you go about your social interactions. That "chat" you had with those two women the other day... Geez, I almost fell asleep reading it. Next time, you find a woman talking to you, you separate her from her friend to chat, and ask her interesting emotionally responsive questions about her life. Being silent and enjoying the silence works sometimes, but that is only after you are already interacting with her.
You need to check out my boy, AMS.
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