because appealing to authority is always a logical fallacyDrum&Bass said:Why ?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
because appealing to authority is always a logical fallacyDrum&Bass said:Why ?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
:crackup:Rudra said:Just out of sheer interest (didn´t research fish oil):
Why would you want to get your omega3 out of saturated fat (fish oil) when you can get the same out of highly unsaturated fat (flax seed oil) ? Which is dirt cheap btw.
I'm kind of confused at that post myself, and i'm pretty smart. lol. Hmm....Throttle said::crackup:
this doesn't even deserve a serious response.
Actually, I'm not so much confused as saddened.Omen said:I'm kind of confused at that post myself, and i'm pretty smart. lol. Hmm....
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ideally, they should be used only isometrically. That it, whenever weight try's to bend your back and lose your neutral arche, your lower back works to keep your back straight.onthepath said:just one question, how can you stretch and work out the lower back/
those muscles are never being used by me, and after the slightest exertion of them, i'm in agony later unable to move properly which stuffs up all my workout plans
I wish they wrote that article a little more professionally. Is has lots of great, well supported info, but, their writing does display some heavy bias.Throttle said:You don't have to agree with everything written by these ladies http://www.westonaprice.org/knowyourfats/skinny.html to understand that all fats are a mix of saturated and unsaturated fats of varying types.
cheers!spesmilitis said:Ideally, they should be used only isometrically. That it, whenever weight try's to bend your back and lose your neutral arche, your lower back works to keep your back straight.
You use your glutes and legs, not your lowerback to pull weight. Use your glutes by thrusting them forward via squeezing your em together.
http://stronglifts.com/what-pulling-back-on-the-deadlift-really-means/
http://stronglifts.com/how-to-activate-the-glutes-to-fix-your-lower-back-pain/
http://stronglifts.com/5-reasons-your-lower-back-hurts-when-doing-deadlifts/
As for stretching the lower back, its not that important:
http://stronglifts.com/you-want-a-healthy-lower-back-stop-stretching-it/
Best exercises for strengthening your lower back: deadlifts, squats, reverse hyper extensions, and regular back extensions. There are also pull through and good mornings, I don't like em as much as the extensions, but many people swear by em. (am I missing anything?). Just remember to use the glutes and not lower back when doing these. Squeeze glutes and lead with the hips.
ya know, i could even go for a rephrase, making the last clause a questions (eg "He died in the prime of his life of suicide -- maybe he realized his lowfat diet couldn't cure his own cancer?")spesmilitis said:"Pritikin may have saved himself from heart disease but his lowfat diet did not spare him from cancer. He died, in the prime of life, of suicide when he realized that his Spartan regime was not curing his leukemia. "
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well, I don't like about that line is that it said he diet wasn't curing cancer. Not causing it. As far as I know, once you do have cancer, diet alone won't completely cure it. Also, mentioning the suicide, seems like scare tactics to me, something our movement doesn't need.Throttle said:ya know, i could even go for a rephrase, making the last clause a questions (eg "He died in the prime of his life of suicide -- maybe he realized his lowfat diet couldn't cure his own cancer?")
one of the most likely risks of switching to omega-6 polys is an increased risk for all cancers (all poly fats are unstable and go rancid quickly -- any rancid oil, omega-3 or 6 or anything else -- is probably bad for you). the evidence isn't iron-clad but it's accumulating.
if you don't like that line, a significant proportion of their otherwise helpful cookbook "nourishing traditions" would probably annoy the crap out of you. Fallon goes off the deep end every 3rd or 4th page or so.
Throttle said:Actually, I'm not so much confused as saddened.
In the popular (at least American) conception, meat = saturated fat = bad for you. Both these equations happen to be either mostly or totally false.
You don't have to agree with everything written by these ladies http://www.westonaprice.org/knowyourfats/skinny.html to understand that all fats are a mix of saturated and unsaturated fats of varying types. In fact, lard (so evil-sounding that we actually use lard-ass as an insult) is primarily a very healthy monounsaturated fat (granted, with lots of saturated fat mixed in).
so Rudra's strange comment doesn't confuse me -- it makes me weep for everyone who buys this bull**** and then tries to live it out.
who said anything about low fat, high carb, low protein diet ??? how about moderate carb, fat and High protein with exercise ?stick with the conventional lowfat high carb low protein logic that has produced an overweight, unhealthy, heart disease-, diabetes- and Alzheimers-ridden society in America and across the globe too.
agreedI have often said on this board to not overcombine fats and carbs in the same meal as you are presenting your body with two potential fuel sources. one will be stored and the other oxidised.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Admittedly I didn't know your particular dietary recommendations and I apologise for making presumptions.Drum&Bass said:who said anything about low fat, high carb, low protein diet ??? how about moderate carb, fat and High protein with exercise ?
Warboss, how fat were you?Warboss Alex said:Admittedly I didn't know your particular dietary recommendations and I apologise for making presumptions.
It's just when you said 'thousands of experts', I assumed you'd give the usual 'expert' recommendation of mod protein, high carb, low fat.
(this is what was recommended to me some years ago from a qualified PT when I first started out - I was fat - to lose weight, and guess what? I got fatter)
What is your dietary approach then D&B?
I was fairly pear-shaped if I remember rightly. can't remember numbers or anything like that. I just remember eating wholegrain bread, rice, oats etc for most meals of the day along with egg whites, milk(!!) and cottage cheese, **** like that (I followed the meal plan exactly).. I looked in the mirror one day and looked worse than I ever did.KarmaSutra said:Warboss, how fat were you?
4 - 5 meals a dayWhat is your dietary approach then D&B?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.