"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Am I Overanalyzing This?

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So my girlfriend dumped me two weeks ago and a friend of mine, she just recently ended **** with another guy, so she sends me this message on facebook lastnight..


Subject: are u feeling better...
Message: p.s. are you feeling better about the whole denise thing? i just recently let go of this HUGE ******* i mean one so huge you could fit a whale **** in. he sucks. we should talk. i miss you making me laugh.


Am I overanalyzing this? Or does she wants something more..?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Two weeks ago, and this randomly pops up on your page. Good job!

Always Assume Attraction. Therefore, she wants you. Go get her. (learn about IOI/SOIs)
 

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Translation:

"subject: I want you to f*ck me
message: Get over to my room right now and let's have sex."
 

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So I tried not flat out say "let's ****"... but how'd this go..?

Message: yeah i'm over her and feeling a whole lot better! thanks for asking. haha about the *******... glad you got rid of him. anyways, yeah let's get together sometime and talk. i miss laughing "at you" ;)


..tried to throw a little c&f, i didn't want to throw in too much cos she's only an HB6 or so. but if you notice, I tried to put it something subtle, "let's get together" in there.
 

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foomee said:
So I tried not flat out say "let's ****"... but how'd this go..?

Message: yeah i'm over her and feeling a whole lot better! thanks for asking. haha about the *******... glad you got rid of him. anyways, yeah let's get together sometime and talk. i miss laughing "at you" ;)


..tried to throw a little c&f, i didn't want to throw in too much cos she's only an HB6 or so. but if you notice, I tried to put it something subtle, "let's get together" in there.
Nice response bro, 'thumbs up' on that one. I do think you were over analyzing on your first post though, try to stay out of your head.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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HB6 sounds a little weak, but what the hell, I guess you need someone to rebound to right about now.

It might give you some social proof, anyway.
 
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