"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Am I over-analyzing this?

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iCatch

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sorry for posting this here and not the hs forum, but it's a girl's birthday tomorrow and i asked her what she wanted and she was like "i want a boyfriend" and smiled at me. does this mean what i think it means?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Master Disaster

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... If you're posting this now, I believe you lost your window. If you didn't make the move after she said that, then you lost your chance.

Who knows if she truly meant it, but she could of easily meant "take me now." If you still like her, then the only thing I could think of would be wrapping up a present then placing a note card that is redeemable for a date or kiss for her birthday.
 
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abcd_z

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Yes, that was a big-time IOI. If it was me, I would have been a playful jerk with it, saying something like "Hmm, well I think I know some guys that might work for you. You don't mind snaggle-teeth, right? *wink*" ...right before escalating kino. Pull her in for a hug or tickle her or even kiss her if you felt the vibe was right.

Since the window's passed, just treat her like you would any other woman you're interested in. Be playful, have a good time with her, and DO NOT BE AFRAID TO ESCALATE. Remember, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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OrangeCrusader

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Well you did miss one chance, but given that her birthday is tomorrow, you do have another to escalate/ask her out/etc. if you want to.

Though technically you didn't clarify if you're interested in her or not
 
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Daddy The Pimp

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Dont worry you didnt miss the chance yet . Whether or not is IoI , it depends on your report with girl . If she looks you as her friend (girlfriend) it wasnt IoI. Otherwise is an IOI.

If it was for me, would go to her birthday and tell her that i was there to make her birthday wish come true and go for the kiss. Immediately .
 
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Allurre

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What do you do now? Attend the party, give her a good time & make her feel like a special birthday girl. Don't cling on to her the whole night, tend to your friends. She wants a boyfriend? well ask her out on a date later, perhaps on his bday.

Simple.
 
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