"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Am I not taking control of my approaches? But I need a GOAL

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Here's the issue I face. It seems like my success with women comes in random, spontaneous "bursts." For a couple months, I might be banging and dating several different chicks at once, but then when those all fizzle or die out, I'll be stuck in a rut, with no action or dating whatsoever. OR, I'll end up dating/banging only a single chick, like I'm doing now.

As I've just started back up uni again, this just can't fly. There are hundreds and hundreds of women around me all day, but that's the ironical thing...my approaches seem to be SPONTANEOUS. What I mean is this...I can't seem to go out, with the INTENTION of getting a women, and accpmplish it WHEN I FEEL like it.

Sure, I've dated and banged plenty of girls, but the meetings were all just random times I could have never predicted.

Anyone else like this? Any suggestions for getting me back on my feet here, or, even better, on the top of a girl this weekend?

This is a problem that's been plaguing me for the longest while, and I think it ultimately comes down to the fact that the weakest part of my game is in doing totally RANDOM, but INTENTIONAL approaches. I consider the rest of my game to be pretty solid. I've been able to land in a chick's bed just after a first date most of the time (and I'm not that handsome).

So I'm going to set a goal. I'm going to do a TOTALLY random approach in a NEW type of setting each day, from the cafeteria, to the library, to the hallway, to the classroom, etc.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well, that's just one part of the issue though. I've always been into improving myself both physically and mentally.

It seems like what you are suggesting is to completely IGNORE the act of intentionally sarging and instead just "let the girls follow." Sure, that CAN work once in a while, but it seems to be that the next level of being a DJ would be to have TOTAL control of the situation...meaning that you can pick up a girl when and where you want.

What do you think?
 
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