"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I know I messed up on the texting. Anyway to salvage this?

Me: What are you up to tonight?

Her: Watching FGump and doing my taxes...I procrastinated.

Me: You should procrastinate some more and come out downtown. I'm doing mine tomorrow.

Her: I don't go out very much...especially not during the week. Have fun though!

Me:You'll be missing out on a terrible karoke performance, but you'll live. Are you free this weekend?

Her: I'll be home for Easter.

Me: Good luck with the Easter egg hunt. Lets grab a drink next weekend when you get back.

She never responded after that..What am I doing now?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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pursue other women, maybe send a random restart text in a week or more. If she ignores that one, the number is dead.
Dont feel bad, i have a lot of number die, its like only 1 in 5 seems to amount to anything.

I went on a first date with a chick last week, had an excellent time, excellent make out session, and I can feel the number dying just a week later. It happens, learn and move on.
 
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^^^^^ This 100%.
 
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MtnMan said:
pursue other women, maybe send a random restart text in a week or more. If she ignores that one, the number is dead.
Dont feel bad, i have a lot of number die, its like only 1 in 5 seems to amount to anything.

I went on a first date with a chick last week, had an excellent time, excellent make out session, and I can feel the number dying just a week later. It happens, learn and move on.
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Cosign along with Greasy.....

The problem is she IS NOT interested. Nothing you can do.
 
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MtnMan said:
pursue other women, maybe send a random restart text in a week or more. If she ignores that one, the number is dead.
Dont feel bad, i have a lot of number die, its like only 1 in 5 seems to amount to anything.

I went on a first date with a chick last week, had an excellent time, excellent make out session, and I can feel the number dying just a week later. It happens, learn and move on.
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I guess there is no harm in giving it one last shot. In general, what should I text next week without sounding needy?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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not sure on what to text, maybe some random callback humor from some other time you talked to her. You can search the restart text, there are a million ideas. Don't get you hopes up though, so far I have had 0% chance with this working on a chick with lower IL.
 
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I think go ghost for a bit and try a restart text. Mntman's got the right Idea. Her interest may be there but its low. Get that hamster running.
 
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