"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cali51

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I know I messed up on the texting. Anyway to salvage this?

Me: What are you up to tonight?

Her: Watching FGump and doing my taxes...I procrastinated.

Me: You should procrastinate some more and come out downtown. I'm doing mine tomorrow.

Her: I don't go out very much...especially not during the week. Have fun though!

Me:You'll be missing out on a terrible karoke performance, but you'll live. Are you free this weekend?

Her: I'll be home for Easter.

Me: Good luck with the Easter egg hunt. Lets grab a drink next weekend when you get back.

She never responded after that..What am I doing now?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MtnMan

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pursue other women, maybe send a random restart text in a week or more. If she ignores that one, the number is dead.
Dont feel bad, i have a lot of number die, its like only 1 in 5 seems to amount to anything.

I went on a first date with a chick last week, had an excellent time, excellent make out session, and I can feel the number dying just a week later. It happens, learn and move on.
 

Greasy Pig

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^^^^^ This 100%.
 

TheException

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MtnMan said:
pursue other women, maybe send a random restart text in a week or more. If she ignores that one, the number is dead.
Dont feel bad, i have a lot of number die, its like only 1 in 5 seems to amount to anything.

I went on a first date with a chick last week, had an excellent time, excellent make out session, and I can feel the number dying just a week later. It happens, learn and move on.
Cosign along with Greasy.....

The problem is she IS NOT interested. Nothing you can do.
 

cali51

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MtnMan said:
pursue other women, maybe send a random restart text in a week or more. If she ignores that one, the number is dead.
Dont feel bad, i have a lot of number die, its like only 1 in 5 seems to amount to anything.

I went on a first date with a chick last week, had an excellent time, excellent make out session, and I can feel the number dying just a week later. It happens, learn and move on.
I guess there is no harm in giving it one last shot. In general, what should I text next week without sounding needy?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MtnMan

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not sure on what to text, maybe some random callback humor from some other time you talked to her. You can search the restart text, there are a million ideas. Don't get you hopes up though, so far I have had 0% chance with this working on a chick with lower IL.
 

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I think go ghost for a bit and try a restart text. Mntman's got the right Idea. Her interest may be there but its low. Get that hamster running.
 
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