so first post =) to start off sorry for my bad english its not my native language.Anyway theres this blonde girl who i know for about 2 or 3 years.well of course by that time i was a total AFC and got LJBFed in 1 week(guess thats a record).now i have been around sosuave.net for 1 or 2 weeks and i've changed...a lot.well anyway i think im leaving the friends zone with the blonde.i she doesent cry over me she doesent talk about her problems and that bull**** and she even invites me to hang out with her and that stuff.so my question im i really leaving the friends zone or not?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Am i leaving the friend zone?
- Thread starter Punisha
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Plec07
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Deadly_Assassin
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You need to look up Mr. fingz 'escape the friendship zone' post. It will answer most of your questions.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
