so first post =) to start off sorry for my bad english its not my native language.Anyway theres this blonde girl who i know for about 2 or 3 years.well of course by that time i was a total AFC and got LJBFed in 1 week(guess thats a record).now i have been around sosuave.net for 1 or 2 weeks and i've changed...a lot.well anyway i think im leaving the friends zone with the blonde.i she doesent cry over me she doesent talk about her problems and that bull**** and she even invites me to hang out with her and that stuff.so my question im i really leaving the friends zone or not?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Am i leaving the friend zone?
- Thread starter Punisha
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Deadly_Assassin
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You need to look up Mr. fingz 'escape the friendship zone' post. It will answer most of your questions.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
