so first post =) to start off sorry for my bad english its not my native language.Anyway theres this blonde girl who i know for about 2 or 3 years.well of course by that time i was a total AFC and got LJBFed in 1 week(guess thats a record).now i have been around sosuave.net for 1 or 2 weeks and i've changed...a lot.well anyway i think im leaving the friends zone with the blonde.i she doesent cry over me she doesent talk about her problems and that bull**** and she even invites me to hang out with her and that stuff.so my question im i really leaving the friends zone or not?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Am i leaving the friend zone?
- Thread starter Punisha
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Plec07
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Deadly_Assassin
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You need to look up Mr. fingz 'escape the friendship zone' post. It will answer most of your questions.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
