Am I in trouble? or do i have control of situation

[Zaraza]

So after not talking to my ex for 1 year, we ran into eachother before college started back in august. No hate or hurt feelings were shown we were just good friends. She texted me few weeks back, askin me whats up and how we havnt talked in a long time. I figured yea we are friends, so we start chattin/flirting (yea i think i might still like this girl - cant blame me). She comes back for thanksgiving and texts me for us to meet up, we go to starbucks and then on a walk to chat....next thing i know we have plans to drink :cheer: and smoke weed :cheer: alone :cheer: at my house during winterbreak..

I have changed from the time we dated, gained confidence, gained muscle, gained style..sorta a new person.

She has been texting me again. The only thing is she has a bf...haha.. and ive been known to get girls to dump guys for me. She did it before.

wtf is going on?
anyone have opinions? willing to discuss this? ever been in a similar situation?

ZaraZa

 

[KontrollerX]

You're only in trouble if you are invested emotionally in getting with her during the time you two hang out together.

Cuz if you are emotionally involved and you try to f-close her and she cuts you off then you're fvcked.

What to do?

Cut off your emotions surrounding her for the time being and just be relaxed and chill with her and be the new man that you are and if you see an opportunity to escalate things with her take it.

If the opportunity never arises no loss to you since it was just two friends getting together to smoke out and everythings cool.

 

[Zaraza]

Thanks Kontroller,

Yea thats what im gonna do. Sit back, relax, and enjoy the time.