"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Am I in trouble? or do i have control of situation

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Zaraza

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So after not talking to my ex for 1 year, we ran into eachother before college started back in august. No hate or hurt feelings were shown we were just good friends. She texted me few weeks back, askin me whats up and how we havnt talked in a long time. I figured yea we are friends, so we start chattin/flirting (yea i think i might still like this girl - cant blame me). She comes back for thanksgiving and texts me for us to meet up, we go to starbucks and then on a walk to chat....next thing i know we have plans to drink :cheer: and smoke weed :cheer: alone :cheer: at my house during winterbreak..

I have changed from the time we dated, gained confidence, gained muscle, gained style..sorta a new person.

She has been texting me again. The only thing is she has a bf...haha.. and ive been known to get girls to dump guys for me. She did it before.

wtf is going on? :confused: :confused: :confused:
anyone have opinions? willing to discuss this? ever been in a similar situation?

ZaraZa
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You're only in trouble if you are invested emotionally in getting with her during the time you two hang out together.

Cuz if you are emotionally involved and you try to f-close her and she cuts you off then you're fvcked.

What to do?

Cut off your emotions surrounding her for the time being and just be relaxed and chill with her and be the new man that you are and if you see an opportunity to escalate things with her take it.

If the opportunity never arises no loss to you since it was just two friends getting together to smoke out and everythings cool.
 
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Thanks Kontroller,

Yea thats what im gonna do. Sit back, relax, and enjoy the time.
 
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