"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Long story short- I have been seeing a girl for about a year on and off. We recently had a talk and she said she liked me so I said did she want to be my girlfriend. She said she wanted to get to know me better. Last night we went to a party at my friends house. My friend is always a drunken mess. He asked her for her number about four times in somewhat of a joking manner. She declined the first three attempts but on the third said well you can text me if you cant reach my man and she put her number in his phone. At this point I got mad. She asked why and I told her because she gave her number out. This morning I sent her a text message apologizing. She didn't reply. I invited her to lunch. No reply. She later replied and said "sorry im out and about, bye."

My plan at this point is to wait until she tries to contact me. Is that the way to go??

Thanks in advance for any advice you guys can give! thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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if it was me. i would go after another target...if she later on initiates contact,then good for you, if not then you have other options..
dont wait on her...keep MOVING
 

TonyBaloney

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ABANDON THIS PROJECT~ AND SEEK NEW BUDDYS

This really is the HEIGHT of disrespect. You should have let your bud know that he was taking the piss.... If it were me I would have pulled him to one side - but to be honest, none of my m8's would dare pull a trick like that - and you've been seeing this woman a year!!!!!! She's rotten to the core - at leat you've seen with your own eyes shes lookin at other guys and taking their number... for f ucks sake man, wake up - she;s a skank, and will ruin you if you try and continue
 

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TonyBaloney said:
ABANDON THIS PROJECT~ AND SEEK NEW BUDDYS

This really is the HEIGHT of disrespect. You should have let your bud know that he was taking the piss.... If it were me I would have pulled him to one side - but to be honest, none of my m8's would dare pull a trick like that - and you've been seeing this woman a year!!!!!! She's rotten to the core - at leat you've seen with your own eyes shes lookin at other guys and taking their number... for f ucks sake man, wake up - she;s a skank, and will ruin you if you try and continue
I concur 100% save yourself the trouble... Shes a slore .. Move on and next her
 

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Thanks guys. It's hard to hear but you guys are most likely right. I'm getting ready to delete her number out of my phone right now. Thanks again. Hopefully I can resist the temptation to try and communicate with her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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