"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Am I Good Looking

dirtyvibe

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if I get eye contact from almost every girl I walk by outside of school, and often get smiles? I've found that when I dress nicely, <7 girls aren't very receptive to me, literally like straight up mean, but if I dress purposely ****tily and don't shower for a while, they approach me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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VegasGuy56

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Then dress nicely. Why would you want girls who are less than a 7 to approach you?

As for if you're good looking or not, no one here can tell you that from what you've posted. By looking at someone, if they notice you they will look back (Eye contact). Most girls will smile when making eye contact unless they're having a bad day.

BTW, why are you intentionally dressing ****ty and not showering?
 

dirtyvibe

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**** this i didnt mean to post this dont bother with it it was a spur of the moment thing i posted right after i drank 6 red bulls
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I wouldn't. You'd talk the ears off the broad.
 

dirtyvibe

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suprisingly you dont really feel anything, you just have to piss a lot and feel like youre gonna throw up for a while
 
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