"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Am I Good Looking

dirtyvibe

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if I get eye contact from almost every girl I walk by outside of school, and often get smiles? I've found that when I dress nicely, <7 girls aren't very receptive to me, literally like straight up mean, but if I dress purposely ****tily and don't shower for a while, they approach me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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VegasGuy56

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Then dress nicely. Why would you want girls who are less than a 7 to approach you?

As for if you're good looking or not, no one here can tell you that from what you've posted. By looking at someone, if they notice you they will look back (Eye contact). Most girls will smile when making eye contact unless they're having a bad day.

BTW, why are you intentionally dressing ****ty and not showering?
 

dirtyvibe

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**** this i didnt mean to post this dont bother with it it was a spur of the moment thing i posted right after i drank 6 red bulls
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I wouldn't. You'd talk the ears off the broad.
 

dirtyvibe

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suprisingly you dont really feel anything, you just have to piss a lot and feel like youre gonna throw up for a while
 
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