"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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R1ch4rd

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I got a few pictures to share with you. Mainly because I seem to attract nothing higher than 6 on looks alone. I used to always be called good looking and got loads of stares from 10!. Now I don't get them as much.

What would you rate me in each picture. I'm crap at rating myself it seems.


Thanks
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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kraytkiller

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The first one you look so angry I cracked up, haha. But the last one you look fine...I guess if I had to rate you out of 10 I'd rate you like..8.. The only drawback is you look younger than you probably are.

Certainly not hideous though.
 

S.Y.L

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1. New haircut, that one makes your head look like a brick.
2. dress better, your in 2009, and in high school, not a 2002 9 year olds soccer team
3. you look outta shape, lose some fat and put on the muscle


You got potential brah, but nothings helping you now.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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R1ch4rd

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What haircut lol. my hairs like different in all 4.
There just my home clothes btw, stuff i wear louisng around.
Yes I am, I go bit of chubby cheeks still. I'm working on that and it's going well.

I like to know your options for the haircut. Thanks for all the feedback, the most truthful the better.
 

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Do something with your hair and put on a nice button up shirt with some good shoes. Face wise you're fine, it's your inner game that attracts women though- how you think of yourself will dictate how you subconsciously carry yourself- body language, verbal tones, everything. If you're asking if you're handsome you must not believe fully that you are- get on that and watch your game blow up.
 

Analyzeit

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Do something with ya hair bro, honestly anything will help, otherwise i completely agree with S.Y.L you look like a 2002 9 year old soccer team man, doing something with you hair makes anyone look older.

Haha, first photo you look angry man
 

magickarl

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Step your game up

I'm going to have to go with the consensus that you look young. Women like older boys for the most part.

The answer? Make yourself look older.

I'm not the hottest guy on the block, but I play the cards I'm dealt, and bang hotties as a result

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Hair cut.

You definitely look like your mom still cuts your hair.

Different hairstyles complement different people. I couldn't tell your body type from those pictures but I'm seeing two options:

1. Grow it out shaggy style.
2. Buzz it off.

Too many people are sleeping on the buzzed head look these days, I'm a big believer in it.

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...ID=268714595&albumID=1096642&imageID=16221909

Facial Hair

Definitely helps with looking older. I'm 20, and I haven't had trouble getting in to bars since I was 17. Consistently getting success with women as old as 25. Lots of people are doing goatees and sideburns, so be creative. If you are feeling bold, go for a full beard.

The important things to remember here are keep it well trimmed, and if you don't have the hair growth for it, then to just not mess with it.

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...ID=268714595&albumID=1096642&imageID=13464905

Dress right

The 12 year old soccer team comment was on point. You don't have to be flashy, but dress your age and hopefully older.

A simple sweater can go a long way.

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...ID=268714595&albumID=1090973&imageID=13378721

Eye contact


Get your stare right -- A powerful gaze is one that gives off confidence but not arrogance.

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...ID=268714595&albumID=1096642&imageID=14248741

Get buff

People debate the necessity of this, but no-one will argue that a well-developed musculature conveys manliness.
The ladies love my hairy chest and muscles. When I was a sophomore in highschool I weighed maybe 115 pounds. By the time I was a senior I was 225, and rock solid.

I get more tang now.

Hit the gym a few times a week and see what happens

Sophomore photo:

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...ID=268714595&albumID=1090796&imageID=10455176


@ age 19

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...ID=268714595&albumID=1090789&imageID=13357429



Might not be for everybody, but it worked for me
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Darth

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I think a good, clean, short haircut would be fine...I don't think he has to shave it all off.

I think all you need is a short haircut, better clothes (polos, some button-ups, etc.) and a confident attitude.
 
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