"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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R1ch4rd

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I got a few pictures to share with you. Mainly because I seem to attract nothing higher than 6 on looks alone. I used to always be called good looking and got loads of stares from 10!. Now I don't get them as much.

What would you rate me in each picture. I'm crap at rating myself it seems.


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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The first one you look so angry I cracked up, haha. But the last one you look fine...I guess if I had to rate you out of 10 I'd rate you like..8.. The only drawback is you look younger than you probably are.

Certainly not hideous though.
 

S.Y.L

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1. New haircut, that one makes your head look like a brick.
2. dress better, your in 2009, and in high school, not a 2002 9 year olds soccer team
3. you look outta shape, lose some fat and put on the muscle


You got potential brah, but nothings helping you now.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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R1ch4rd

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What haircut lol. my hairs like different in all 4.
There just my home clothes btw, stuff i wear louisng around.
Yes I am, I go bit of chubby cheeks still. I'm working on that and it's going well.

I like to know your options for the haircut. Thanks for all the feedback, the most truthful the better.
 

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Do something with your hair and put on a nice button up shirt with some good shoes. Face wise you're fine, it's your inner game that attracts women though- how you think of yourself will dictate how you subconsciously carry yourself- body language, verbal tones, everything. If you're asking if you're handsome you must not believe fully that you are- get on that and watch your game blow up.
 

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Do something with ya hair bro, honestly anything will help, otherwise i completely agree with S.Y.L you look like a 2002 9 year old soccer team man, doing something with you hair makes anyone look older.

Haha, first photo you look angry man
 

magickarl

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Step your game up

I'm going to have to go with the consensus that you look young. Women like older boys for the most part.

The answer? Make yourself look older.

I'm not the hottest guy on the block, but I play the cards I'm dealt, and bang hotties as a result

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Hair cut.

You definitely look like your mom still cuts your hair.

Different hairstyles complement different people. I couldn't tell your body type from those pictures but I'm seeing two options:

1. Grow it out shaggy style.
2. Buzz it off.

Too many people are sleeping on the buzzed head look these days, I'm a big believer in it.

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...ID=268714595&albumID=1096642&imageID=16221909

Facial Hair

Definitely helps with looking older. I'm 20, and I haven't had trouble getting in to bars since I was 17. Consistently getting success with women as old as 25. Lots of people are doing goatees and sideburns, so be creative. If you are feeling bold, go for a full beard.

The important things to remember here are keep it well trimmed, and if you don't have the hair growth for it, then to just not mess with it.

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...ID=268714595&albumID=1096642&imageID=13464905

Dress right

The 12 year old soccer team comment was on point. You don't have to be flashy, but dress your age and hopefully older.

A simple sweater can go a long way.

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...ID=268714595&albumID=1090973&imageID=13378721

Eye contact


Get your stare right -- A powerful gaze is one that gives off confidence but not arrogance.

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...ID=268714595&albumID=1096642&imageID=14248741

Get buff

People debate the necessity of this, but no-one will argue that a well-developed musculature conveys manliness.
The ladies love my hairy chest and muscles. When I was a sophomore in highschool I weighed maybe 115 pounds. By the time I was a senior I was 225, and rock solid.

I get more tang now.

Hit the gym a few times a week and see what happens

Sophomore photo:

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...ID=268714595&albumID=1090796&imageID=10455176


@ age 19

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...ID=268714595&albumID=1090789&imageID=13357429



Might not be for everybody, but it worked for me
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I think a good, clean, short haircut would be fine...I don't think he has to shave it all off.

I think all you need is a short haircut, better clothes (polos, some button-ups, etc.) and a confident attitude.
 
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