"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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am I freakin out about this?

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so my gf just told me that if we break up she'd give up on men, because she's put up with too much crap with men and if i turned out the same way then she'd just go to women even though she's not gay (that i know of atleast)

but she also informed me that she's always wondered what gay women see in kissing other chicks. and if she was single and the opportunity came up that she might consider kissing another chick just to see what the hype was about. I told her that she's not missing anything ( this is coming from someone who has personally kissed another man on a dare...never again)

my girl has never done a gay thing in her life, and according to her friends she's the straightest chick they know. but this kinda concerns me. i don't want her lezzin out on me.

she could sense my disdain apparently because she asked me if anything was wrong. I told her nothing was wrong, but this has been bothering me ever since. she said that she couldn't be gay, but she'd probably do it if we didn't work out (she's in love with me)

am i just overracting about this whole thing? is my gf bi or something?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Your girlfriend is not bi. Your girlfriend is *gasp* being manipulative. If you guys break up, she's going to have to learn to not put her own hopes and dreams on the shoulders of other people. Unless she's a dumbass, in which case she won't learn anything and will continue to wonder why all of her relationships suck.

Oh and a little secret here...pretty much all girls have/will kissed/kiss other girls. It's not because they're bisexual, it's because it drives us guys crazy to see 2 hot women making out.
 
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X-ecution said:
so my gf just told me that if we break up she'd give up on men, because she's put up with too much crap with men and if i turned out the same way then she'd just go to women even though she's not gay (that i know of atleast)
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All what this girl said can be summed up in 3 words: Blah blah blah.....

Women talk about every little sh1t that pops into their head and you shouldn't pay attention to it. Once again you don't judge a woman by her words but by her actions.
 
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You know your G/F better than any of us, but women are crazy and say and do some crazy ****. Play it off cool so she'll move on and not constantly bring this rant up. In other words, chill out.
 
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