"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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am I flirting with disaster?

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I have met someone online who really "clicks" with me. It is a bit of a flirting site. She seems like a good chick. But she's stuck in a rut- no sex for many years with hub, he has no interest, just TV. She found someone once who was gonna leave his W for her, then he backed out and really hurt her. Her kids are grown, but are mad at her now. We've talked on the phone a bit, shared pics and talked online for quite a while now. I'm getting hooked! I'm kinda scared too. She lives very far away (2000 mi). I'm afraid it could blow up in my face.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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glass half full said:
I have met someone online who really "clicks" with me. It is a bit of a flirting site. She seems like a good chick. But she's stuck in a rut- no sex for many years with hub, he has no interest, just TV. She found someone once who was gonna leave his W for her, then he backed out and really hurt her. Her kids are grown, but are mad at her now. We've talked on the phone a bit, shared pics and talked online for quite a while now. I'm getting hooked! I'm kinda scared too. She lives very far away (2000 mi). I'm afraid it could blow up in my face.
1) Married.
2) Cheater / wannabe cheater.
3) Cleverly seductive.
4) Life a mess.
5) Family a mess.
6) Very distant.

Yep, seems like a keeper to me!

GHF, you could find more joy with a one legged fat chick who is local.

You're flattered by the interest level and maybe she's cute/hot ...
For you though, this chick is trouble.

This internet flirt / social site is a ... think the term is buffer.
Read Buffers.

One of the more important lessons I've learned since I crashed and burned four years ago and since I was single again, is never settle!

SH
 

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Yes, you are flirting with disaster indeed! You already know this yourself, otherwise you wouldn't have created this thread and told us:

I'm getting hooked! I'm kinda scared too.
You just HOPE that it isn't true and that someone here will somehow prove that to you... But that ain't gonna happen ;)

SecondHalf summed it up already, this chick is noooooooooooo good! Get rid of her right now, before you get hooked deeper and the "disaster" becomes true. Break contact and keep it that way, don't fall for her attempts to draw you back in. Let some other fool be victimized by her...
 

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WHY isn't her husband interested in sex????? Is she a stone cold b1tch? There IS a reason no one wants to bang her or live with her
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Of all the online relationships I had, from about late 1996 or so, 100% of them amounted to zero. It was all fantasy. Stop now ASAP and avoid the mental anguish. You know nothing of what is on the other end. More than likely, büllṣhit is involved and nothing is as it seems.

See Catfish: The Movie or TV Show.
 

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OK, I owe you guys an explanation. You guys who have seen me here before know that I've been stuck in a relationship with a femcvnt, and recently pryed myself away. now the fun part.

Last year, I was at my wife's "social" place, where she hangs with her "friends". I'm looking to see where her and her nasty bit$h friend are. I go in her friend's camper, who has this little "guilty giggle". I know, I've worked w/ her for years. so I'm quiet, but observant. It seems they are both on a flirting site, on their Iphones. They desribe things about it, making fun about it. I don't say anything (the right thing to do in my circumstance).

So, fast forward to this february. I'm thinking about this incident late one night, and decide to have a little fun. Thought I would figure out who they were, and cause some disruption. So I spent a couple of months earning my stripes, to get enough credibility to be a part of the gang. imagine that! Incidentally, I never did figure out who they were, but In the mean time, I got lured in. Over the last few days, the woman i had interest in, has seemed to lose interest. She did fool me. Turns out her seemingly level headed self is a game player. The lesson I learned here, other than the very obvious, is that this chick lured me in just like my soon-to-be ex wife did! Same demeanor. Kinda scary! I hope you guys take note of this, i sure have! I feel like an idiot for getting sucked into this, thankfully it didn't go too far!
 

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Dafuq? :confused:

When you concern yourself with silly women and silly games, guess what that makes YOU?

You're better than that...
 
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