Am i feeling insecure/overthinking?

[ialphamaster]

Met this new girl, long distance. We talk an hour daily, on facebook and texting.

I don't see any sign of disinterest (IOD - indication of disinterest) from this girl but still when ever I read our chat, and text messages, there's always a gut feeling that I'm making her bored.

To make it more clear as possible. It's always like I kind of feels dizzy and tired while talking to her, and same feeling I get while re-reading my conversations with her so as a result of this, I mostly fail's to entertain her and flirt properly as I've to go through such a hard time even thinking about what to prevent her from getting bored or disinterested with all the BS I may talk about.

Is there a chance that she feel's the same tiredness/dizziness while talking to me? Or it's just my own gut feeling?

Have anyone ever been through this?

 

[alpha_ash]

If you shared part of the conversation, I think we may be able to help!

 

[Greasy Pig]

OP, if this is the same bytch you've been losing your mind over and writing about for the past few weeks, I'll fvcking scream.

And if it isn't, why are you persisting with meeting chicks that aren't even in your town?

 

[JoeMarron]

There's so much wrong with this that trying to give you advice is pointless. Read the bible. That is all.

 

[Rock Steady]

Stop.

 

[lamobatsman]

No hes a differnt OP Greasy Pig. But yes im curious send us some of your conversation for us to analyse

 

[PlayHer Man]

Met this new girl, long distance. We talk an hour daily, on facebook and texting.

See what I put in bold? That is your problem and that is why you are an AFC in this situation.

Why on earth are you acting like one of her girlfriends? Let me guess what she talks to you about.. her problems, her annoying friends, how there are no "nice guys" left?

Hmmmm....

A high value man has no time to be talking with a chick he is not sleeping with for an hour DAILY. Even in my most AFC days I never did that sh!t :crackup:

Read the DJ Bible please.

 

[Die Hard]

Met this new girl, long distance. We talk an hour daily, on facebook and texting.

I stopped reading after that...

Advice: NEXT her immediately and go no contact. Then open your door, walk into the real world and find a girl that you can actually touch and see.

Good luck.

 

[Greasy Pig]

No hes a differnt OP Greasy Pig.

Yes, it is the same OP:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=201288

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=201668

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=201762

 

[Mike]

You say you feel like your making her bored while texting her, then you more than likely are, I feel like I'm making a girl excited while texting her, stop caring if she is bored or is interested in you, it will kill your chances.

My way of going about things is to act like she likes you, believe that she does, quit the texting and go out somewhere with her, if you keep thinking of yourself as boring then you are gonna stay boring, as for indicator of interest, I don't care too much for them, just make a move and see how it goes.

And if she doesn't like you then fvck it

To be honest If I relied on IOI's or IOD's over making a move then I'd have a lot less success

Listen to and apply the advice everyone has given you

Read the bible. That is all.

Read the DJ Bible please.

Listen to them, Read it http://www.mts.net/~bpony/djbible/

 

[Mr. Bond]

Jesus, I read the thread title without reading any more I already knew that the answer was yes. If you have you ask "am I being insecure and overthinking?" the answer is yes.

Also:

Long distance doesn't work.
Talking with a girl for hours doesn't work.
Caring about what she thinks of you doesn't work.
She does not get that same feeling you get. She gets bored.