I'm at University, and recently my pulling game in clubs has been off the scale. I slept with 3 different girls in 5 nights. All 3 gave me there numbers and texted me a few times in the days afterwards, but now they've all stopped. Not one of them has replied to my texts. Am I missing something?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Am I doing something wrong?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
sylvester the cat
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you slept with all three of them. what texts do you need them to reply to?
chill out, keep spinning and wait for them to come to you. which they probably will when they've finished doing the full university carousel.. there's a lot of fresh ****s in uni for them to get accustomed to. do likewise and get some fresh pussay
chill out, keep spinning and wait for them to come to you. which they probably will when they've finished doing the full university carousel.. there's a lot of fresh ****s in uni for them to get accustomed to. do likewise and get some fresh pussay
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Moving too fast? Im not entirely convinced they are all that invested in the situation. You might be coming across as a ONS instead of FWB. Which are you aiming for? Seems like they sobered up and with little previous rapport might be having buyers remorse.Bluebird7 said:
Keep doing what your doing (obviously), but I would be curious if you tried going for a date followed by a second date lay in afew instances at least to see if that makes them text back, invest more and move to FWB.
I was aiming for FWB, I think I may of failed with one because I seemed a little to keen, I asked if she fancied lunch to just get to know each other better and that may of seemed a little to forward and date like. However the others I can't really narrow down, I just texted asking how they were at what they've been doing.DragonBlood said:
I've just kinda taken a blow by being dropped by basically 4 girls in the space of a week (The 4th is a on and off date that doesn't seem to want to drop me even though she's seeing a guy) but thanks all for the sound advice, its picked me up a bit.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
