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I talked to a girl on Sunday and told her we would hang out sometime this week, probably Wednesday.

I proceeded to call her on Wednesday around 12:00 noon,and I left her a message saying. "Hi this is _ _ _ _ _ _, Just calling to see if we are gonna hang out today, If you want to do something, give me a call"

She text messaged me at 3:00 saying, today is not looking good, she is still at work and then asked me what other days I was free.

I texted her back about 20 minutes later saying "Don't work to hard. Mon,Tues, and Thursdays I am usually free"

She never responded to my text, or called me and it has been a full day since that.
Did I do anything wrong? I am really trying to work very hard to improving myself.

Should I respond back to her in two days saying something like "OK, you waited the traditional two days before calling, it's ok to respond"

I know someone is gonna tell me, just forget about her and move on but, my problem is that is all I have been doing time and time again.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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she text and said she couldn't make it, and asked about another day to reshedule, she does sound interested.

You could have probably told her a specific day that you could have gone out, instead of saying which days you were free, rather than giving her the options to what day ya'll can hook up.
 
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Luveno

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Beginner,

I suggest that next time you get in touch with her, set an absolute date. Do not put the ball in her court. Last time I checked, it was the male who had balls.
 
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just sit back let her call you, girls like to chase they want a challenge espically in the beginning cause when they get you it will make them feel better and they are competitive by nature. If she likes you this won't fail trust me. let her make the suggestions and when do go something at first act like you dont care cause right now you are acting like you care a lot
 
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IsiMan84

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Basically what everyone else said minus what the last guy said about letting her make the suggestions. That's the last thing you'd want to do, and most likely the reason she hasn't been too quick on getting back to you...
 
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