Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Am I doing anything wrong?

Beginner1

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I talked to a girl on Sunday and told her we would hang out sometime this week, probably Wednesday.

I proceeded to call her on Wednesday around 12:00 noon,and I left her a message saying. "Hi this is _ _ _ _ _ _, Just calling to see if we are gonna hang out today, If you want to do something, give me a call"

She text messaged me at 3:00 saying, today is not looking good, she is still at work and then asked me what other days I was free.

I texted her back about 20 minutes later saying "Don't work to hard. Mon,Tues, and Thursdays I am usually free"

She never responded to my text, or called me and it has been a full day since that.
Did I do anything wrong? I am really trying to work very hard to improving myself.

Should I respond back to her in two days saying something like "OK, you waited the traditional two days before calling, it's ok to respond"

I know someone is gonna tell me, just forget about her and move on but, my problem is that is all I have been doing time and time again.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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onyx

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she text and said she couldn't make it, and asked about another day to reshedule, she does sound interested.

You could have probably told her a specific day that you could have gone out, instead of saying which days you were free, rather than giving her the options to what day ya'll can hook up.
 

Luveno

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Beginner,

I suggest that next time you get in touch with her, set an absolute date. Do not put the ball in her court. Last time I checked, it was the male who had balls.
 

alldidas

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just sit back let her call you, girls like to chase they want a challenge espically in the beginning cause when they get you it will make them feel better and they are competitive by nature. If she likes you this won't fail trust me. let her make the suggestions and when do go something at first act like you dont care cause right now you are acting like you care a lot
 

IsiMan84

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Basically what everyone else said minus what the last guy said about letting her make the suggestions. That's the last thing you'd want to do, and most likely the reason she hasn't been too quick on getting back to you...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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