"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Am I crazy! Dumped an HB10

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I know I can't fulfill myself to the fullest as a DJ unless I can walk away and never look back, especially on a girl that's a HB9.9. She's gorgeous and I got her because I played it cool, ****y + funny, and as always hard to get. To the point where she never knew where she stood like she's asked me several times on occassion "Are we going to go out?" in a way that suggests I may turn her down, which I've done a couple of times. Also, She did all the chasing. I only chased her when I ask her out and that is over the phone with a 30 minute notice.

Let me tell ya, it's real tough to apply these DJ techniques because a girl's beauty just screws up your thinking big time, I'm real serious here guys, your brain turns into oatmeal. If you can control that which I think I have, then you are on the path to enlightenment.

I think this girl is the final girl in which I have refined my DJ skills to the max and the next girl will fall head over heals. The one thing that I'm proud about the most is the fact that I'm not crying, sobbing, and sadden over breaking up with this gorgeous girl. I do on occasions though but not like in the past to the point where I want to try everything to get her back, my AFC days are over for good.

I learned and practiced alot from this site, Dave Angelo, Doc Love, Payton Kane (this guy's CD is good), and all you fellow DJs.

I know understand the dating game and how females think...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone who claims to have gone out with a 9-10 women should post pictures of themselves with them holding a sign stating their name.

If you don't care to do that, here's a middle finger from me! i!i
 
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If your dime is as hot as you say and you dumped her, then I can understand where you're coming from. No you ain't crazy, but your game is at it's peak and you don't wanna seatle with one. :D

Now you'll go out and get all those dimes and it will be just beautiful! :woo:

Good Luck!
 
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the guy that said something about the pic is true.

NOw, every girl that i think is bad, I always post a pic of her
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What I think...

You got her BECAUSE you're the kind of guy who is willing to walk. You'd probably never get such a girl unless that's who you'd became at any rate. DO not feel guilty. Be proud that you're improving.
 
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I dumped her because I felt she was too selfish with herself. I felt she could have done more for me compared to my ex girlfriends who weren't as pretty but much more supportive. This is common behavior among hot chicks though. I just need to find one that is both beautiful and more giving.

This is the third dime I've gone out with. The first one crushed me to pieces after dating her for just 2 months and that's when I started to look for resources to help me understand women and the dating game. That's how I found this site.
 
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10's are hard fo real DJ's for LTR's. AFC's have ruined them. They are used to getting their way, and they are used to being pampered.

10's are easy for DJ's for the booty call or short term, because they are used to getting their way, and a DJ poses a short term challenge for them.

You will get her attention, hold it for a while, but she will eventally grow tired of not getting her way, or you will get tired of her spoiled pricess bullshyt.

I suggest 7-8 for LTR's. Still cute, but have a much much better personality
 
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Whatever dude.

She can cook a 4 course meal and suck a golf ball through a garden hose, but I still want no part of her if she is *****y, selfish, lacks self esteem or is not really intelligent.

Remember after the first few years, the sex tapers off, and after 10 years the looks fade, and you are left with whatever is left over.

How did Tommy Lee put it? "Show me a beautiful woman, and I will show you a guy who is tired of banging her"

Those words come from the mouth of a man who was with

Pam Anderson
Heather Locklear
Jessie Jane
James King
and countless other dimes
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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