"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Am I crazy! Dumped an HB10

CherryBreaker

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I know I can't fulfill myself to the fullest as a DJ unless I can walk away and never look back, especially on a girl that's a HB9.9. She's gorgeous and I got her because I played it cool, ****y + funny, and as always hard to get. To the point where she never knew where she stood like she's asked me several times on occassion "Are we going to go out?" in a way that suggests I may turn her down, which I've done a couple of times. Also, She did all the chasing. I only chased her when I ask her out and that is over the phone with a 30 minute notice.

Let me tell ya, it's real tough to apply these DJ techniques because a girl's beauty just screws up your thinking big time, I'm real serious here guys, your brain turns into oatmeal. If you can control that which I think I have, then you are on the path to enlightenment.

I think this girl is the final girl in which I have refined my DJ skills to the max and the next girl will fall head over heals. The one thing that I'm proud about the most is the fact that I'm not crying, sobbing, and sadden over breaking up with this gorgeous girl. I do on occasions though but not like in the past to the point where I want to try everything to get her back, my AFC days are over for good.

I learned and practiced alot from this site, Dave Angelo, Doc Love, Payton Kane (this guy's CD is good), and all you fellow DJs.

I know understand the dating game and how females think...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DonJuanMonk

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Anyone who claims to have gone out with a 9-10 women should post pictures of themselves with them holding a sign stating their name.

If you don't care to do that, here's a middle finger from me! i!i
 

Sasha

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If your dime is as hot as you say and you dumped her, then I can understand where you're coming from. No you ain't crazy, but your game is at it's peak and you don't wanna seatle with one. :D

Now you'll go out and get all those dimes and it will be just beautiful! :woo:

Good Luck!
 

backbreaker

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the guy that said something about the pic is true.

NOw, every girl that i think is bad, I always post a pic of her
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What I think...

You got her BECAUSE you're the kind of guy who is willing to walk. You'd probably never get such a girl unless that's who you'd became at any rate. DO not feel guilty. Be proud that you're improving.
 

CherryBreaker

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re:

I dumped her because I felt she was too selfish with herself. I felt she could have done more for me compared to my ex girlfriends who weren't as pretty but much more supportive. This is common behavior among hot chicks though. I just need to find one that is both beautiful and more giving.

This is the third dime I've gone out with. The first one crushed me to pieces after dating her for just 2 months and that's when I started to look for resources to help me understand women and the dating game. That's how I found this site.
 

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10's are hard fo real DJ's for LTR's. AFC's have ruined them. They are used to getting their way, and they are used to being pampered.

10's are easy for DJ's for the booty call or short term, because they are used to getting their way, and a DJ poses a short term challenge for them.

You will get her attention, hold it for a while, but she will eventally grow tired of not getting her way, or you will get tired of her spoiled pricess bullshyt.

I suggest 7-8 for LTR's. Still cute, but have a much much better personality
 

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Whatever dude.

She can cook a 4 course meal and suck a golf ball through a garden hose, but I still want no part of her if she is *****y, selfish, lacks self esteem or is not really intelligent.

Remember after the first few years, the sex tapers off, and after 10 years the looks fade, and you are left with whatever is left over.

How did Tommy Lee put it? "Show me a beautiful woman, and I will show you a guy who is tired of banging her"

Those words come from the mouth of a man who was with

Pam Anderson
Heather Locklear
Jessie Jane
James King
and countless other dimes
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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