Am I being used?

[guitaronfire411]

So I've been talking to this girl and kinoed her breasts, but haven't received any proper sexual favours in the last month or so that I've been with her. She's only a 6.5 or so but I like her personality and we flirt easily. Lately though, it seems like she's getting too possessive or controlling.

We were talking about seeing a hockey game and this is the e-mail she sent me tonight, when I asked for her to phone me on Friday:

Subject: Hockey Game

Hey
My sister said she would drive us. I was wondering if you can pay for the tickets and I will give you money for them... cuz I don't have a credit card.

So it will be me, you, my friend "Jen", my sister "M", and her boyfriend "B". So I guess. 5 tickets thanks.

I tried calling you today but no answer. So I guess so its good.
My sister said she can pick us up at 5pm because she wants to get there a head of time.

We can pick up food while we are there. Email me back and tell me if it is okay with you buying the tickets ahead of time.
See you on Sat evening. Bye

So I am feeling used like her puppet here. Should I go ahead and get the tickets or tell her my $0.02?

 

[thedeparted]

Neither. Option C. Zen option. Do nothing. Wait.

See, there are red flags all over the place. First, you said call, not email. Second, she's leading not you. Third, she's got her whole damm family coming which is not a date. Four, she said "thanks" like she assumed you'd do it. Fifth, even my cat can get a credit card.

So I'd just not reply at all. Wait for her to call and play it like you never got the email. Don't waste your time lecturing her about anything. Just lead her in the direction you want to go and see if she goes there. If you get the feeling she's using you, she probably is, in which case you just say that it turns out you can't make it that night.

P.S. While a lot of guys would just say "NEXT" they are missing an opportunity. If you take charge of an alpha bltch like this in a calm cool collected way and make her do what you want it will really get her turned on. She'll respect you more and want to fvck you. So it's worth playing through the green, so to speak.

 

[guitaronfire411]

Thanks. I've been doing a good job with this girl but lately run a lot of bad luck (for a lack of a better word) in my life, which has disrupted my cool vibe. Notably, the transit strike.

Yesterday she wanted to come over and make cookies for me. I was thinking of suggesting we can buy the tickets there instead when she does get back to me.

 

[Jitterbug]

Way way too early to meet her friends & family. Even if this ticket situation didn't come up, I wouldn't go.

The part about "kinoed her breasts": ROFL!!!

 

[Andy_Dufresne]

So I am feeling used like her puppet here.

Yup.

Call the shots, especially if you are thinking of advancing $$$ for all of her family and friends, which is not the brightest idea either. It should be just the two of you.

 

[jophil28]

So I am feeling used like her puppet here. Should I go ahead and get the tickets or tell her my $0.02?

The tone and content of her email indicates a controlling attitute with a high sense of entitlement. She appears to be 'asking' you to agree to several things, but her style says otherwise . She EXPECTS you to agree with no resistance..... she is really giving you sugar coated orders.

What to do ? Do Nothing . Go see a movie alone instead. "Talking it out" with women like this is futile - take it from me.