recently, i've had some girls disrespect me. what i've done is just ignore them. it seems like they've taken to either ignoring me back (which is fine), but what's annoying me is they're flirting with other people in front of me. i don't know, but it seems like they're intentionally doing it to get back at me or something. it's annoying as phuck b/c i couldn't care less who they get with. it's like studying, & people sitting beside you are talking nonstop at the library kind of annoying.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
am i being **** tested or am i overthinking?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Your post indicates otherwise.konmai said:
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If people are disrespecting you then you need to figure out if there is some validity to their perception of you. Why do you think they're disrespecting you?
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The girl is either a tease or an attention *****. Both are bad by the way.
VikingKing
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Realize you have higher value. Treat it as if she was a child. Just don't care, and the way you dont care is focus on something else. Ignore.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
To be honest...I wouldn't go with the ignoring route.
Ignoring her is a decent option...it definitely beats getting butthurt and crying in front of everyone.
However, if you make fun of her back in a "I know I'm better than you" mentality, you will undoubtedly dominate the situation (assuming you are actually good with words and are actually nonchalant while doing so).
They're basically bullying you right now because you won't stick up for yourself. Ignoring them is too passive aggressive. They don't give two sh!ts if you just ignore their teasing and bantering because they immediately go on to flirt with the nearby hot guy at the party.
Ignoring her is a decent option...it definitely beats getting butthurt and crying in front of everyone.
However, if you make fun of her back in a "I know I'm better than you" mentality, you will undoubtedly dominate the situation (assuming you are actually good with words and are actually nonchalant while doing so).
They're basically bullying you right now because you won't stick up for yourself. Ignoring them is too passive aggressive. They don't give two sh!ts if you just ignore their teasing and bantering because they immediately go on to flirt with the nearby hot guy at the party.