"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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the_govner

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So I went out with this girl on saturday, we had a great time (felt like it at least). Spent 45 mins at a lounge and had a couple of drinks, she spoke 70% of the time, I paid and she right away said she'd get the next one (pay the next time we go out), dropped her off, peck on the cheek, and done.

She went to some wig party after that.

So I message her on thursday afternoon, after a lil small talk for a few mins, "Tapas and wine this saturday?"

She responds: "Don't know what's more tempting, the tapas or the wine :) I'll get back to you on that one. My friend has a gig I have to attend gotta check the time.

I reply: "Only one way to find out! Sure let me know, take care michelle."

Its saturday 2 pm right now, haven't spoken to her since then. What should I do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GuanYu

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Gotta wait for her to contact you man. You already offered so it's up to her to let you know what's up. If she doesn't contact you, there's your answer.
 
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Charm&Style

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you need more things going on in your life than to be thinking about if a girl is going to reply to you or not on a saturday
 
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You should ask another girl out.

Yeah its tough when you're starting but otherwise you'll get Oneitis on that chick and thats baddddd
 
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the_govner said:
She responds: "Don't know what's more tempting, the tapas or the wine :) I'll get back to you on that one. My friend has a gig I have to attend gotta check the time.

I reply: "Only one way to find out! Sure let me know, take care michelle."
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I usually try and reply to maybe's to plans with something like "You better get back to me quick before my friends come up with other plans ;-)"

I think it works great because if your friends do come up with awesome plans your covered with the line "You should have got back to me sooner! I have already bought tickets to...." or something like that. That also has the added benefit of social proof.

Just make sure to don't hang around the phone waiting for a call do something. It's not fun and I don't recommend it. That is the #2 thing I don't miss about being a AFC.

My bet is she wont phone. Just don't make a big deal out of it and you'll be fine.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Its not the end of the world.... If she doesn't come out tonight then give it a few days and see if she contacts you. If she doesn't then you know the real issue: LOW INTEREST LEVEL...

Why aren't you hanging out with your friends and meeting new girls on Saturday???



PIMP
 
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