“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Am I being shutdown? Check this out really quick.

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So I went out with this girl on saturday, we had a great time (felt like it at least). Spent 45 mins at a lounge and had a couple of drinks, she spoke 70% of the time, I paid and she right away said she'd get the next one (pay the next time we go out), dropped her off, peck on the cheek, and done.

She went to some wig party after that.

So I message her on thursday afternoon, after a lil small talk for a few mins, "Tapas and wine this saturday?"

She responds: "Don't know what's more tempting, the tapas or the wine :) I'll get back to you on that one. My friend has a gig I have to attend gotta check the time.

I reply: "Only one way to find out! Sure let me know, take care michelle."

Its saturday 2 pm right now, haven't spoken to her since then. What should I do?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Gotta wait for her to contact you man. You already offered so it's up to her to let you know what's up. If she doesn't contact you, there's your answer.
 
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you need more things going on in your life than to be thinking about if a girl is going to reply to you or not on a saturday
 
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You should ask another girl out.

Yeah its tough when you're starting but otherwise you'll get Oneitis on that chick and thats baddddd
 
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the_govner said:
She responds: "Don't know what's more tempting, the tapas or the wine :) I'll get back to you on that one. My friend has a gig I have to attend gotta check the time.

I reply: "Only one way to find out! Sure let me know, take care michelle."
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I usually try and reply to maybe's to plans with something like "You better get back to me quick before my friends come up with other plans ;-)"

I think it works great because if your friends do come up with awesome plans your covered with the line "You should have got back to me sooner! I have already bought tickets to...." or something like that. That also has the added benefit of social proof.

Just make sure to don't hang around the phone waiting for a call do something. It's not fun and I don't recommend it. That is the #2 thing I don't miss about being a AFC.

My bet is she wont phone. Just don't make a big deal out of it and you'll be fine.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Its not the end of the world.... If she doesn't come out tonight then give it a few days and see if she contacts you. If she doesn't then you know the real issue: LOW INTEREST LEVEL...

Why aren't you hanging out with your friends and meeting new girls on Saturday???



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