doctor1996
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Am I being a jerk? Friends are saying so?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
doctor1996
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Should I ask her to do something in a week?
Haven't messaged her at all yet
Haven't messaged her at all yet
doctor1996
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So girls that aren't attractive in my eyes?'
But whats the purpose of that?
I could get with a fat chick or an ugly girl.. but they wouldnt even reach up to my standards...
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doctor1996
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And what is oneitis?
doctor1996
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And If I revealed the inner me to some girl I was talking with, she found out that I have over 3k posts on pre-med forums, top writer for pre-med on quora, i'll just come off as a big nerd.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
doctor1996
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No you're right. I was being a sniper. I can't do that. Screw that.