doctor1996
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Am I being a jerk? Friends are saying so?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
doctor1996
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Should I ask her to do something in a week?
Haven't messaged her at all yet
Haven't messaged her at all yet
doctor1996
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So girls that aren't attractive in my eyes?'
But whats the purpose of that?
I could get with a fat chick or an ugly girl.. but they wouldnt even reach up to my standards...
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doctor1996
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And what is oneitis?
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And If I revealed the inner me to some girl I was talking with, she found out that I have over 3k posts on pre-med forums, top writer for pre-med on quora, i'll just come off as a big nerd.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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No you're right. I was being a sniper. I can't do that. Screw that.