"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Am I banned...

Mr. Mystery II

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I am really Mr. Mystery, I haven't been active here for a while now, but I recently started stopping by again and I am unable to log in.

When I put in my pass word, the screen says thanks for logging in and then leads me back to another screen saying that I was able not allowed access and I should sign in???

Whats up?

Mr. Mystery
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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m4a1

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Under your name it says "Master don juan", so you're not banned.
 

xi phi pi

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Sounds like maybe you changed your email and didn't reply to it. PM Allen (Sosuave.com) and check about that with him since it seems to happen a lot.
 

Mr. Mystery

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Hmm...I'm on my computer at work and I can log on no problem? Weird, maybe its just my comp at home that has trouble loggin on...I don't know, I guess I need to do somemore troubleshooting.

Mr. Mystery
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by xi phi pi
Sounds like maybe you changed your email and didn't reply to it. PM Allen (Sosuave.com) and check about that with him since it seems to happen a lot.
You seem to have a lot of info on how this site runs. As you told me your here under an alias but me wonders which old poster or moderator you really are.

Asanova? naaaa...he's not of the same intellectual style as you...oh well.

You can't be that baffoon Starman...he's played himself way out, like 8 track tape players and suitcase sized mobile phones.
 

xi phi pi

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
You seem to have a lot of info on how this site runs. As you told me your here under an alias but me wonders which old poster or moderator you really are.

Asanova? naaaa...he's not of the same intellectual style as you...oh well.

You can't be that baffoon Starman...he's played himself way out, like 8 track tape players and suitcase sized mobile phones.
I've worked on/with VBulliten before and have seen this problem occur. Hell, it happened to me before. :p
 

Mr. Mystery II

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Well, I'm a little frustrated.

Allen PMed me back and said that it sounded like a cookie problem, so I tried to fix the cookies and told the brower to enable this site. I still can't log on with Mr. Mystery, but I have no problem logging on with Mr. Mystery II, so it shouldn't have anything to do with cookies.

Do any of you technically sound posters out there have any idea whats going on? I don't know computers or the internet that well so I'm justified in being clueless as far as what to do, but I know some of you out there have an idea. Thanks.

Mr. Mystery
 
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