"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Am I antisocial if I don't use MSN?

bud_2005

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I used to use it when I was younger but I just feel like I kind of grew out of it. If I'm talking to a person I prefer for it to be face to face or like on the phone. Its just more fun that way. But people ask me in amazement why I don't use the thing. My brother sits on it for about 3-4 hours a day and I just see it as a waste of time when you could be out drinking with your buds or something.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Skilla_Staz

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LMAO. Thats like saying "Am I AntiSocial if I don't spend my life on the internet?"

I don't use MSN. I use AIM. Even then, I'm not on terribly often, due to work, personal life, sleeping, football, etc.
 

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Absolutely. By using MSN instead of AIM, you are displaying anti-social behavior. However, you forgot to bring up Yahoo Messenger - if you use AIM but don't use Yahoo, then you're twice as antisocial. However, if you use MSN and Yahoo but not AIM then you're not as anti-social as you would be if you used Yahoo and AIM.

:rolleyes:
 

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diablo said:
Absolutely. By using MSN instead of AIM, you are displaying anti-social behavior. However, you forgot to bring up Yahoo Messenger - if you use AIM but don't use Yahoo, then you're twice as antisocial. However, if you use MSN and Yahoo but not AIM then you're not as anti-social as you would be if you used Yahoo and AIM.

:rolleyes:
I say that it's a racial thing. An absolute bigotry against all things Microsoft. He's probably a OSX user.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bud_2005

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Ok I guess you guys don't really understand what I mean. When I said MSN I meant all instant messengers. I just don't care too use it all that often. But I know some people who live on them.
 

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I believe your right thats how I feel.

plus you dont want to be like that guy on napolean dynamite.
 

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Yes...duh
 
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