Am i an idiot?

[Life-Trainee]

I like a girl from my literature class, HB6. At some point in the semester she was sitting next to me but we never talked. I tried to force some smalltalk but that ended up awkward. Towards the middle of the semester she began sitting on the opposite side of the class with her girl-friends. I don't see her around campus much outside of this class (different majors) so I didn't have chance to really talk to her about anything. I'd sit next to her but I don't want to alienate my friend (yea lame excuse). Today i noticed a guy who's sits nearby start talking to her. Now I feel like a complete idiot. I kind of know this guy, he's a complete wanker (worked on a project closely with him), so it pisses me off that he got more courage to talk to her. I guess my question is how can I make myself feel better in this situation? I reckon I could begin some empty smalltalk with her randomly after class and invite her out for a coffee. I don't got one-itis on this one but I want to get into the game. Please slap me around and whatnot, i deserve it, the DJ wanna be that I am.

 

[WaterTiger]

Okay...try this one on for size.

BE THE HERO! Rescue her from the "wanker". Ask if you can borrow notes from class, discuss the reading list...ANYTHING! Go talk to her before the punk-guy takes her out or worse yet...gets a KISS from YOUR girl!!!!!!!!!

Are you going to sit there and let it happen? You KNOW she'll be happier with you! Go get her!























Why are you still here? GO!

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

I think you mentioned in your last thread that you had problems approaching a chica and asking her out. Are you going to be like this your whole life? Enough already, and ask her if you can carry her books, or ask her if she would like some candy or something!

 

[Life-Trainee]

I have previously approached chicks in my workplace. I work in a computer lab so student chicks sometimes come over to do their homework or whatnot. Lately i haven't seen cute girls in the lab. I've never asked anyone from my classes. For some reason i have irrational fears about it. I still think to much of what others think of me.

 

[LouieVaton Don]

Yo all you need to do is sit back next 2 her and come out with some random comment during the course of your class, then the small talk will commence.