man, im a stalker AND a pervert. more on the pervert side because im too lazy to stalk but that doesn't mean i don't have the old stalker in me... i'll stalk the daylights out of anyone. you'd have to call cia and put a restraining order on me. i'd use to crawl up on the walls to check and hear to see if a couple were having sex..those were the good ol days
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
am I a stalker?
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Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
Okay, tailing her is a bit much. You've progressed from spying to following and stalking. So yeah, to answer the question of the thread, you are a stalker. Time to stop now.
chad2k5 said:It turns out my oneitis's dad lives across the street from me (small world, huh?) and I'm always looking out my window to see if her car's there and she's visiting. well like I do almost everyday, I peaked out and she happened to be there walking to the house. I ran as quick as I could for my camera. I forget how much the zoom is, but it gets close. so I slowly pulled the blinds up just a little so I could get the lens in, and snapped a few shots. She kinda rejected me 4 years ago and I haven't seen her since.
I'm a normal person but I guess in a way this is kind of weird?
Its pretty harmless in my opinion, but for your own mental well being i would stop doing it and move on to other women.
chad2k5 said:update:
she was over at her Dad's again. I waited till she got in her car, then I ran out back and jumped in mine. I tailed her for about 2 miles (I don't think she noticed). She jumped on the freeway and that's when I turned back. Do you guys think she has a boyfriend? I'm hoping she's single, cuz what are the chances of a family member of hers living across the street? I think it's meant to be. I think I'm gonna run into her and be like "oh wow, how've you been?" etc, ya know making it look I didn't know anything.
thoughts, suggestions?
thanks
I had not read this post when i gave my opinion previously on the subject. This is very poor behavior and is indicitive of someone with stalking tendencies. I would stop it immediatly.
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
I call BS. "I think it's meant to be" is too cheesy.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I think you're an idiot.chad2k5 said:update:
she was over at her Dad's again. I waited till she got in her car, then I ran out back and jumped in mine. I tailed her for about 2 miles (I don't think she noticed). She jumped on the freeway and that's when I turned back. Do you guys think she has a boyfriend? I'm hoping she's single, cuz what are the chances of a family member of hers living across the street? I think it's meant to be. I think I'm gonna run into her and be like "oh wow, how've you been?" etc, ya know making it look I didn't know anything.
thoughts, suggestions?
thanks
San Jose California said:Who cares? It's stalkerish but I would do that and most people here would too probably. As long as she doesn't find out.
speak for yourself i would never take pictures of a girl who rejected me 4 years ago from my window using zoom and noone ever finding out about it.