man, im a stalker AND a pervert. more on the pervert side because im too lazy to stalk but that doesn't mean i don't have the old stalker in me... i'll stalk the daylights out of anyone. you'd have to call cia and put a restraining order on me. i'd use to crawl up on the walls to check and hear to see if a couple were having sex..those were the good ol days
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
am I a stalker?
- Thread starter chad2k5
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
Okay, tailing her is a bit much. You've progressed from spying to following and stalking. So yeah, to answer the question of the thread, you are a stalker. Time to stop now.
chad2k5 said:It turns out my oneitis's dad lives across the street from me (small world, huh?) and I'm always looking out my window to see if her car's there and she's visiting. well like I do almost everyday, I peaked out and she happened to be there walking to the house. I ran as quick as I could for my camera. I forget how much the zoom is, but it gets close. so I slowly pulled the blinds up just a little so I could get the lens in, and snapped a few shots. She kinda rejected me 4 years ago and I haven't seen her since.
I'm a normal person but I guess in a way this is kind of weird?
Its pretty harmless in my opinion, but for your own mental well being i would stop doing it and move on to other women.
chad2k5 said:update:
she was over at her Dad's again. I waited till she got in her car, then I ran out back and jumped in mine. I tailed her for about 2 miles (I don't think she noticed). She jumped on the freeway and that's when I turned back. Do you guys think she has a boyfriend? I'm hoping she's single, cuz what are the chances of a family member of hers living across the street? I think it's meant to be. I think I'm gonna run into her and be like "oh wow, how've you been?" etc, ya know making it look I didn't know anything.
thoughts, suggestions?
thanks
I had not read this post when i gave my opinion previously on the subject. This is very poor behavior and is indicitive of someone with stalking tendencies. I would stop it immediatly.
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
I call BS. "I think it's meant to be" is too cheesy.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I think you're an idiot.chad2k5 said:update:
she was over at her Dad's again. I waited till she got in her car, then I ran out back and jumped in mine. I tailed her for about 2 miles (I don't think she noticed). She jumped on the freeway and that's when I turned back. Do you guys think she has a boyfriend? I'm hoping she's single, cuz what are the chances of a family member of hers living across the street? I think it's meant to be. I think I'm gonna run into her and be like "oh wow, how've you been?" etc, ya know making it look I didn't know anything.
thoughts, suggestions?
thanks
San Jose California said:Who cares? It's stalkerish but I would do that and most people here would too probably. As long as she doesn't find out.
speak for yourself i would never take pictures of a girl who rejected me 4 years ago from my window using zoom and noone ever finding out about it.