"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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am i a player

joe45

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ok am i considered a player:

i like to talk and be freindly with girls-not just one girl-any girl who seems receptive and nice. i usually initiate,but if they show some effoprt i will be freindly back to em. you could call this freindlyness fliritng a little too.

this it directed at not just one girl but others too:
my flirtiness includes: winks, smiles and winks, hi (her name) and followed by a smile,compliments on her good grade she got in that class-:wow ur smart tahts a very good mark, waves-as to say hello or good bye, compliments on her clothing attire-"i like shoes-they are nike shoxs-their expensive hey-ah but ur worth it and a smile with it and , u have good taste. at times i hold my smile longer than usual. i also give out eyebrow raises as i smile-is this ok. telling the girl i like her b/c she easy to talk to and nice and maybe at possibnel to hang out with her.
example this girl i like is in 2 of the same classes i am in too i say" ah we have 2 classes together , thats great it must be fate". or i say "i am so happy we have 2 classes together that means we can study together"
anyother ways i can also be a flirt or a better one-examples please-i am a rookie.

what is a tease and what would a tease do-give some examples please .
what also do they mean by a guy being playful-some examples.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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spider_007

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you are definetly not a player.

Player is somone who tells gurl everyging they wana hear just to get in their pants. Players lie, cheat, manipulate women to get that end resolt. you may bit of a flirt (playfull would probably be the word for it). but you arn't aplayer. The reason i say that is; beacuse players know haw to play the game and what they are doing, while you don't have a clue.
 

joe45

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ok what would a playa do: tips, advice, ........
anyways how am i being playful

Originally posted by spider_007
you are definetly not a player.

Player is somone who tells gurl everyging they wana hear just to get in their pants. Players lie, cheat, manipulate women to get that end resolt. you may bit of a flirt (playfull would probably be the word for it). but you arn't aplayer. The reason i say that is; beacuse players know haw to play the game and what they are doing, while you don't have a clue.
 

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Originally posted by spider_007
you are definetly not a player.

Player is somone who tells gurl everyging they wana hear just to get in their pants. Players lie, cheat, manipulate women to get that end resolt. you may bit of a flirt (playfull would probably be the word for it). but you arn't aplayer. The reason i say that is; beacuse players know haw to play the game and what they are doing, while you don't have a clue.
Yeah! Good explanation. I like how you went straight to the truth of what a player is. No sugar-coating, a player is a bad man.

Anyway Joe45: From what I heard, you're not a player.

The reason you aren't a player is because you haven't shown us what results you have. I don't give a shiit how much you wink, how many girls are you banging? How many girls do you own? How many girls would drop everything they're doing to spend time with you, take you out, buy you things?

Get the results, and then you'll be a player.

-Dominant
 

rgeere

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Players are pessimistic, they can turn girls on and make them think that they are choosing to do exactly what the player is suggesting.

It really isn't that hard to do, you just need to take charge of things. From what itappears to me from your description is that you have little control over anything.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mack 86

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A player is a guy that chooses to have multiple girlfriends, no more, no less. If you have more than one girlfriend you are a player, it has nothing to do with swagger, language, or dress. Also lying to a female to get a desired reaction is called "spitting game." Joe you basically are just being smooth that's the title for it.
 
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