"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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joe45

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ok am i considered a player:

i like to talk and be freindly with girls-not just one girl-any girl who seems receptive and nice. i usually initiate,but if they show some effoprt i will be freindly back to em. you could call this freindlyness fliritng a little too.

this it directed at not just one girl but others too:
my flirtiness includes: winks, smiles and winks, hi (her name) and followed by a smile,compliments on her good grade she got in that class-:wow ur smart tahts a very good mark, waves-as to say hello or good bye, compliments on her clothing attire-"i like shoes-they are nike shoxs-their expensive hey-ah but ur worth it and a smile with it and , u have good taste. at times i hold my smile longer than usual. i also give out eyebrow raises as i smile-is this ok. telling the girl i like her b/c she easy to talk to and nice and maybe at possibnel to hang out with her.
example this girl i like is in 2 of the same classes i am in too i say" ah we have 2 classes together , thats great it must be fate". or i say "i am so happy we have 2 classes together that means we can study together"
anyother ways i can also be a flirt or a better one-examples please-i am a rookie.

what is a tease and what would a tease do-give some examples please .
what also do they mean by a guy being playful-some examples.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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spider_007

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you are definetly not a player.

Player is somone who tells gurl everyging they wana hear just to get in their pants. Players lie, cheat, manipulate women to get that end resolt. you may bit of a flirt (playfull would probably be the word for it). but you arn't aplayer. The reason i say that is; beacuse players know haw to play the game and what they are doing, while you don't have a clue.
 

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ok what would a playa do: tips, advice, ........
anyways how am i being playful

Originally posted by spider_007
you are definetly not a player.

Player is somone who tells gurl everyging they wana hear just to get in their pants. Players lie, cheat, manipulate women to get that end resolt. you may bit of a flirt (playfull would probably be the word for it). but you arn't aplayer. The reason i say that is; beacuse players know haw to play the game and what they are doing, while you don't have a clue.
 

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Originally posted by spider_007
you are definetly not a player.

Player is somone who tells gurl everyging they wana hear just to get in their pants. Players lie, cheat, manipulate women to get that end resolt. you may bit of a flirt (playfull would probably be the word for it). but you arn't aplayer. The reason i say that is; beacuse players know haw to play the game and what they are doing, while you don't have a clue.
Yeah! Good explanation. I like how you went straight to the truth of what a player is. No sugar-coating, a player is a bad man.

Anyway Joe45: From what I heard, you're not a player.

The reason you aren't a player is because you haven't shown us what results you have. I don't give a shiit how much you wink, how many girls are you banging? How many girls do you own? How many girls would drop everything they're doing to spend time with you, take you out, buy you things?

Get the results, and then you'll be a player.

-Dominant
 

rgeere

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Players are pessimistic, they can turn girls on and make them think that they are choosing to do exactly what the player is suggesting.

It really isn't that hard to do, you just need to take charge of things. From what itappears to me from your description is that you have little control over anything.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mack 86

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A player is a guy that chooses to have multiple girlfriends, no more, no less. If you have more than one girlfriend you are a player, it has nothing to do with swagger, language, or dress. Also lying to a female to get a desired reaction is called "spitting game." Joe you basically are just being smooth that's the title for it.
 
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