penkitten
Master Don Juan
i didnt go to the stupid prom, and i am not a loser either.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Am I a loser if I don't go to prom?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
Unless you are financially unable - you SHOULD go to prom and ENJOY yourself. Show up late, spend an hour remembering the good times youve had (everyones had SOME) - go out and get drunk... have some afterprom fun!
CableLight
Master Don Juan
I have an almost mandatory recommendation: Alcohol.
I have a very fond memory of my senior prom and a group of about 30 of us beforehand just getting hammered and going in.
It was a great time...Everyone carefree as hell just having the time of our lives. Just when I thought the night couldnt get any better, "Wish You Were Here" by Incubus came on. As soon as it started I looked over to a couple buddies of mine and we each yelled in unison at the top of our lungs "Fvck yeah!" The three of us climbed up onto some bleachers (it was in our HS gym) and sang the sh!t out of it. Hell, we even attracted a decent crowd cheering us on, even though I'm not sure if they could hear us over the speakers. Now that I think about it, the song was like an anthem for the night. Good times...Good times.
But anyway...Have fun, man.
I have a very fond memory of my senior prom and a group of about 30 of us beforehand just getting hammered and going in.
It was a great time...Everyone carefree as hell just having the time of our lives. Just when I thought the night couldnt get any better, "Wish You Were Here" by Incubus came on. As soon as it started I looked over to a couple buddies of mine and we each yelled in unison at the top of our lungs "Fvck yeah!" The three of us climbed up onto some bleachers (it was in our HS gym) and sang the sh!t out of it. Hell, we even attracted a decent crowd cheering us on, even though I'm not sure if they could hear us over the speakers. Now that I think about it, the song was like an anthem for the night. Good times...Good times.
But anyway...Have fun, man.
ImmortalDragon
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I've got my senior prom this year too. I didn't even think about asking a girl. Do you have to dress up to go? I was thinking I would go with my friends up not really dressed up.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I'm not positive but I assume just about every prom is formal (tux and dresses).
I want to get a buzz going before the dance but I have a little problem. The guys dance with their mom after grand march. I know she'll smell the alcohol but I really want to drink before it. What should i do?
I want to get a buzz going before the dance but I have a little problem. The guys dance with their mom after grand march. I know she'll smell the alcohol but I really want to drink before it. What should i do?