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Am I a bad friend?

Murk

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So my friend met some girl on the train and have her some jack daniels he had and they exchanged numbers.

I met him in the pub 2-3 months ago and I have him advice on what to text her and she was blatantly flaking and didn’t wanna ever him, nothing transpired.

Fast forward a couple of weeks we are in the pub and I start talking to a hb7.5 blonde - he turns to me and says that’s the girl he was talking to. I chat to her and say my friend likes your what’s going on etc and she says they are just friends. I tell her to tell him that, right now in front of me, as she’s lead him on. She tells him.

He tells me to leave her alone as she has basically claimed her, random friends of a girl I was speaking to previously confront her as I’ve been talking to their Forbes and seemingly latched on to some random, argument ensues and me and blonde head to another’s club down the street.

We leave the club separately but have each others number and continue talking.

We meet at a bar and go to a hotel which she paid for and have sex.

Couple weeks later we meet up in central London where I work and go back to mine for sex. During which she pisses on a trai and I snap chat it.

We talk on and off and my friend starts talking to her and reveals I have a gf. Blondie gets jealous and starts putting it on my friend, they had sex once 2 weeks ago.

Ow before they had sex my friend questioned me on whether I’ve done anything with the blonde, as he “warned” me off her previously I say no. She told me she’s wasn’t interested in him so I feel there’s no point admitting anything as I do t plan on seeing her again due to gf.

My friend tells her I’m seeing someone, in the space of 2 weeks she starts speaking and seeing him and they have sex.

Last week are my friends bday he questions me infront of our friends saying I’ve told our mutual friend I banged this girl (true) and that I need to admit it. I admit it, he goes mad.

I explain we slept together months before anything went on between them, he lies and says he liked her and they had been speaking the whole way through (not true). And that I’ve betrayed him by lying.

I admit I ****ed up by lying but that I didn’t sleep with his gf which is how he is reacting. Friend of 20 years says we’re done. Meets girl in question says they’re done.

Girl in question tell me he is overreacting and she still wants my d.

So basically my friend hates me for thinking I betrayed and lied to him but I’m my opinion he claimed a chick that wasn’t interested, I banged her, he tells her I have a gf so she focuses on him for the last 2 weeks and bangs him once now he’s acting like I slept with his chick.

Draw out messy situation, I prob need to clarify some details but right now I’m quite stubborn at the fact he is overplaying their relationship and making me out to be a snake.

Thoughts?
 

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marmel75

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Your friend is a typical AFC who thinks because he "got a number" that means something...I dunno man, you know he is going to be all butt hurt over this so I guess it ends up being how much you value his friendship versus some random bar Ho.
 
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