ALWAYS treat them like sh*t - no exceptions

[DiegoSantori]

They say "No mistakes in life, only lessons."

Well, here's my lesson: I'm usually categorized as the selfish bad boy, not because I want to be like that, it's just my disposition and the pain in the past that turned me into a jerk.

Now, I heard that women in their late 20s / early 30s get tired of the bad boy, so I was nice to that 29 yo chick, while I continued to treat all the other plates like sh*t. Now guess what? All the other chicks are stalking me, I can't get 'em out my face while that 29 yo chick friendzoned me.

Now I learned it the hard way: ALWAYS treat them like sh*t. Women take kindness for blindness.

 

[soulforge]

Most girls that i have treated well, has taken my kindness for granted!!

Every biitch that i never gave a fuk about, end up all over me... i,m killing the nice in me for fuking good

 

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Hmmm. I'm not sure treating anyone like sh1t will get one far. I do, however, treat girls like the little child brats they are. Kind but firm.

 

[SayWhat]

But how do you treat them like sh*t?

I think of it in this way:

- replying with as few as one word
- not talking to them
- pointing out the obvious sh*tty behaviour

But I guess when responding so little and never initiating contact they would lose IL?

What do you do that is considered sh'tty behaviour?

 

[soulforge]

But how do you treat them like sh*t?

I think of it in this way:

- replying with as few as one word
- not talking to them
- pointing out the obvious sh*tty behaviour

But I guess when responding so little and never initiating contact they would lose IL?

this will only work on some chicks tho.. i agree on pointing out or calling them out on ****ty bahaviour.. but it all depends on the girl

if she realises her mistake & apologizes, then thats good..

but some will create a drama for calling them out, and try to make you feel feel like the bad guy!

 

[Suspens]

Wtf happened again? Jumping to conclusions out of rage and isolated bad experiences.

 

[guru1000]

Women will tolerate disrespect only for so long (which is a novelty to some), and then will eject permanently.

Treat ALL with respect, but accept no disrespect. Weakness only exists in the acceptance of disrespect, not in the showing of respect.

 

[RangerMIke]

You really don't have to treat women like sh!t. You just have to not care one way or another about any particular woman. Treat all women EXACTLY the same. Be kind, but not a push over. Be respectful and expect to be treated likewise.

 

[guru1000]

If one prioritizes and respects himself first, all these ancillary, tactical questions of behavior fall by the wayside.

 

[soulforge]

Women will tolerate disrespect only for so long (which is a novelty to some), and then will eject permanently.

Treat ALL with respect, but accept no disrespect. Weakness only exists in the acceptance of disrespect, not in the showing of respect.

I agree.. no point in treating a woman like crap, she isn't going to hang around too long..

but DO NOT allow a woman to treat you with disrespect.. no matter how good looking she is or amazing the sex is..

do not be afraid to NEXT a woman who you feel is not treating you well

 

[soulforge]

I have a question?

If you feel a woman has disrespected you, and you call her out on her BS

what if she is the drama queen type & creates an argument.. rather than just simply apologizing??

what if she has the victim mentality

 

[guru1000]

I have a question?
If you feel a woman has disrespected you, and you call her out on her BS

Calling her out will achieve little. Making her aware of the transgression as to test her future compliance is entirely acceptable.

what if she is the drama queen type & creates an argument.. rather than just simply apologizing??

Create space or drop her.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Women will tolerate disrespect only for so long (which is a novelty to some), and then will eject permanently.

Treat ALL with respect, but accept no disrespect. Weakness only exists in the acceptance of disrespect, not in the showing of respect.

Agree with this.

I find myself in the same situation op does, I treat women like crap not because I want but because it comes natural to me.

Well it works great for months, then they either get destroyed and leave the toxic relationship or are simply dragged away from their friends.

Still better than being a nice guy in terms of results, but its the wrong choice for your own benefit in the long term, and its wrong also because you may happen to mistreat some girl which treats you good, I lost an amazing quality girl because of that.

First time in my life I seriously tought I should make an effort to be less of an a$$hole.