"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Always seem to lose the girls at some point...

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Attracting some girls is not tough for me for some reason. I love meeting new girls, and I do a pretty good job with it. I got two girls attracted already, and it seems like I somehow lose their interest later. This girl usually stares at me in the halls and IMs me a lot, and the last couple of days she has not IMed me and doesn't laugh at everythin I say and stuff like that. I let this one girl wear my jersey and she said she wanted to wear it next week, but I told her she'd have to earn it. She kept telling me how I can't replace her, and I told her you never know with a smile and then laughed it off with her.

Anyways, I also lost this other girl too, she still acts like it, but doesn't initiate much (shyness and if I push/pull with her, she usually comes back after a little while and is like "are you mad at me...)" Why do I feel like I lose every girl after a little while?? They seem interested in me (maybe it's me) and I feel like I lose their interest after a while...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Rocco, don't be afraid of change or losing someone you like.
In fact, you won't recieve constant interest from a girl unless they're totally obsessed with you.. lol (which is a bad thing usually!)

I want you to try initiating with them and showing a little more interest of your own. Anything is good if it's out of the AFC range.
Be sexy!!!
 
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How will I turn up the heat with one of these two girls? I do a little bit of kino in class, which is kind of tough, but it seems like I had this one girl last year stare me down, was totally shy and IMed me like crazy and somehow I blew that one? And this girl this year whom I just met did the same thing, IMs me and has a lot of fun with me in class...She doesn't get much attention from other guys, but boy was I wrong on that statement; I still messed up with that thought in the past...

Any words of encouragement to get me outta the funk? Or is it my head?
 

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I don't like it when you use the word Funk like that.

It's probably all in your head man, its just some more overanalzying..
 
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