"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AlmostThere!

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Out of sight does not (always) mean out of mind when dealing with females. I had the bad habit of always "checking in" with a female. I would think if she didn't hear from me, interest would be lost due to other guys in her life. But if you made a good impression on her, she will contact you. This is only true for females that you met under suitable circumstances.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yes.... I always give the advice.. it is easier to recover from being to cold then to hot..

meaning if you show too much interest it is hard to get her interest back once you've blown it.

But if you show too little interest (and she liked you) it is very easy to rekindle...

In fact the more she liked you... the more she builds you up in her mind while you're away.
 
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hahaha yeah this seems like a huge DUH for me, but perhaps it isnt as obvious for people who are new here. Gr8 post
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Special T said:
Explain yourself?
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A good way to keep a woman interested in you (i.e., she "misses you" or thinks about you), is to not be around all the time. Or calling her too often, or generally being overexposed. It's one of the skills you have to develop.
 
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This is painfully simple and remember the old advice of flirting with other women and even dating other women, or simply just having a cool exciting life that keeps you busy.
 
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