"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Always remember this guys...

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AlmostThere!

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Out of sight does not (always) mean out of mind when dealing with females. I had the bad habit of always "checking in" with a female. I would think if she didn't hear from me, interest would be lost due to other guys in her life. But if you made a good impression on her, she will contact you. This is only true for females that you met under suitable circumstances.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes.... I always give the advice.. it is easier to recover from being to cold then to hot..

meaning if you show too much interest it is hard to get her interest back once you've blown it.

But if you show too little interest (and she liked you) it is very easy to rekindle...

In fact the more she liked you... the more she builds you up in her mind while you're away.
 
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Remy

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hahaha yeah this seems like a huge DUH for me, but perhaps it isnt as obvious for people who are new here. Gr8 post
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Special T said:
Explain yourself?
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A good way to keep a woman interested in you (i.e., she "misses you" or thinks about you), is to not be around all the time. Or calling her too often, or generally being overexposed. It's one of the skills you have to develop.
 
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This is painfully simple and remember the old advice of flirting with other women and even dating other women, or simply just having a cool exciting life that keeps you busy.
 
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